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com.solo
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 Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 6:37 am Post subject: AWESOME Eye Contact method |
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A tip I use, and friends of mine have found it useful.
When you look at someone, instead of thinking about them, continue looking at them and start talking in your head.
If it's a guy you don't like much, say "fuck you." 90% of the time he will have looked away submissively. If not, start throwing random insults at him in your head. It takes your mind off the eye contact and instead puts you in an antagonistic/AMOG frame.
But remember, you're speaking in your head, not out loud..
With a girl, say "I love you", slowly, seductively. If she hasn't looked away, start saying compliments and you will unconsciously start smiling, which is strong eye contact.
This also helps overcome AA, because if you're already talking in your head, and she's looking at you, it feels natural to start talking out loud.
You get the idea? It works well for me, let me know results. |
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Marco Polo
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| Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 12:11 pm Post subject: |
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| Yep, this is also used in martial arts. Mind is stronger then body. Its just another form of selfconnfidence. Not bad tool though. |
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SoCalFamous
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| Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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| I learned something similar naturally. I always make sure to have eye-contact with a cocky, but and friendly vibe. I want her to know I'm confident in myself and that I don't need her, but with an inviting smile so she knows that I'm not an asshole. So then I off the bat, put myself higher than her... So I'm the prize. Chicks love confidence, they digg it. They want someone who could take control. That's the mindset I picked up naturally with my time "out on the field". |
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Muninn
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 4:59 am Post subject: |
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| Yea ive tried that when i try to out AMOG someone and it works quite often. |
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White Belt
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| Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 12:26 am Post subject: |
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| I like this post. I'm actually gonna go try it. After all, I find that a majority of this PUA stuff is building confidence and finding the proper mind set. |
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GRKiller
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| Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 1:27 am Post subject: |
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| Great post! I've heard about this method before. |
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Anticipation
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| Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 9:48 pm Post subject: |
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| yep definetly going to try this method out cheers for the post man |
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Timeclock
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| Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 3:54 pm Post subject: |
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| Awesome, this works great! |
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AFCtimes10
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| Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 7:53 am Post subject: Re: AWESOME Eye Contact method |
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Love the post - goin 2 try it at the next chance i get
| com.solo wrote: | A tip I use, and friends of mine have found it useful.
When you look at someone, instead of thinking about them, continue looking at them and start talking in your head.
If it's a guy you don't like much, say "fuck you." 90% of the time he will have looked away submissively. If not, start throwing random insults at him in your head. It takes your mind off the eye contact and instead puts you in an antagonistic/AMOG frame.
But remember, you're speaking in your head, not out loud..
With a girl, say "I love you", slowly, seductively. If she hasn't looked away, start saying compliments and you will unconsciously start smiling, which is strong eye contact.
This also helps overcome AA, because if you're already talking in your head, and she's looking at you, it feels natural to start talking out loud.
You get the idea? It works well for me, let me know results. |
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BigLo
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| Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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| What if some says waht the fuck your staring at? Im goin to try it tho. |
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callmecaptain
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I like the way this sounds both on an AMOGging level and on an approach angle.
I'm gonna try it out - good post man |
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callmecaptain
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Dude, this is legit!
I went to the grocery store today to pick some stuff up. I thought I might as well try it on the first female I see.
By the time I left the place with just a few looks and the average dialogue I'm pretty sure the 40 year old hispanic lady at the checkout stand (kinda cute actually) would've married me had I asked.
Thanks a lot for this realy simple but awesome tip man.
Hell yeah!
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Madals
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Ok i tried this at the air port..... every hot chick i saw on the way in i just thought "i could give you the most amazing time of your life" and every single 1 of them looked at me and smiled then blushed a little (well, not a compleat blush but u know what i mean, giggly school girl look).
Then on my way out i just looked at them with the blankest mind i could, most just darted a look, then carried on whatever they were doing. I didnt open any because i was rushing for planes and cabs etc. But still. It works well 
This is money
/madals
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| Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 10:18 pm Post subject: |
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| BigLo wrote: | | What if some says waht the fuck your staring at? Im goin to try it tho. |
Say "Your ass."  |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 3:09 am Post subject: |
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| thanks man! i have a ton of confidence but then when they look at me in the eyes i freeze up cause i get to thinking. im excited to try this |
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