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grayfox
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 Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:10 am Post subject: attracting acquaintances? |
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this is something that has never been explained to me
theres this girl i know who i met last year, she goes to my school and she is pretty cute (with a great rack)
i just started into the game and have yet to feild test anything but right now she is my prime target
this wasnt in the game, and i havent found any forums on it
i know some opners and a few games, but i dunno how to build rapport or close a kiss
i rarely see her on campus anymore because of scheduling, and only occasionally talk on AIM
so, if you were me, how would you approach this? |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:04 am Post subject: |
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Welcome bouksie.
Well, building rapport would be much easier in person, and if you do still see her in person, that's how I would go about it.
But, even in on a messenger you can do it, it just may be harder for you.
Basically, building rapport is finding interesting things for YOU to talk about, to keep her attention on you. Then, you find out what she likes and thinks is interesting, and if you can, work that in. The goal is for her to find you interesting and to want to keep talking to you. The more interesting you are, the more she wants to talk to you, creating a back and forth banter, or rapport.
As for the kiss close. If she's getting herself close to you physically. If she's turning her body to you. If she's giving you the eyes that say "kiss me". If she's doing anything like that stuff, she's ready to be kissed. You just reach up, cup her face with your hands, and lock your lips onto her lips.
Well, there are several techniques to use for the kiss close, but that's a good one to start with. |
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snubby (aka Zen)
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| Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 1:41 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with Tripp. The only thing I'd add is that on the rare occasion you bump into her, try to do an "instant date." Come up with something close by that you were "going to do anyway" and invite her to join you. You attitude should be, "no big deal if you come with or not, but if you do you'll have fun because I'm a fun person to hang out with." Don't actually say that out loud. 
This will give you more time with her in a context where you can build attraction and comfort.
Good luck. |
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