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EzRemake
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 Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 9:22 pm Post subject: Attitude: Hot and Cold |
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Let me briefly explain. At some point in my high school life I learned that women aren't attracted to nice guys ("pussies" as DD calls them), and I understood that concept. It somehow got drilled so far into my head that, combined with my already sarcastic nature, I became somewhat of an asshole.
Thankfully I've realized this, and I'm working really hard on not being so sarcastic. I don't think it's ever gotten to the point where I get people hating me, but I don't think it ever helped build attraction either, so I'm trying to find a middle ground.
I met a girl this weekend, HB6, not a big deal, I wasn't really interested in her, I just wanted to practice some of my material, and throughout the whole night I was, as she referred me to, hot and cold. I'm not sure if what I did here was good, but it definitely got her hardcore hooked on me. I guess what I was doing was giving her little pebbles of nice stuff, and then pushing her away, and negging her, and being sarcastic, and it seemed to create somewhat of a chase scenario. It ended with a K-close and #-close, but I don't know if this was a victory or not, considering she was only HB6..
I think my problem is I want girls to chase me, so I think I might be losing out on situations where I have to chase them a little bit, what do you guys think? Any suggestions or tips? |
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Romantic100
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One you are right first  girls arent attracted to pussies or nice guys. They are attracted to powerful men one that control her subtly which means you control 80%+ in a relationship you make all the choices and one thing being a jerk is a false myth it cannot attract women its the truth and its bad to chase girls Its better to attract them... |
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HumourMe
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mate, i have some insight for you
women LOVE to be in controle, the one thing that we don't give them.... so they fight for it, they do it subtly, they do it under our noses but you never realise. They choose us, which gives them leverage. And we take that away from them... by pushing and pulling like you were doing all night.. Women have a very strange relationship with themselves.
anyways... i think that is all i need to say.. but keep on chugging mate
you are doing well.
have a good night 
love G |
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Killians
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| Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 10:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Romantic100 wrote: | | One you are right first girls arent attracted to pussies or nice guys. They are attracted to powerful men one that control her subtly which means you control 80%+ in a relationship you make all the choices and one thing being a jerk is a false myth it cannot attract women its the truth and its bad to chase girls Its better to attract them... |
Girls are NOT attracted to pussies. RIGHT. However, we are attracted to nice guys. Every normal woman wants a nice guy. Remember that. Guess what? You can be a nice guy without being a pushover!
Also, no woman wants a guy to make ALL the choices in a relationship. Thats on the brink of a total control freak. We do want a guy who can take the initiative to make choices.
Lastly, you dont have to be a jerk to attract women. |
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christopherphilip
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| Women want guys that are powerful but treat them nicely. If you fall for their shit and trip all over them they loose respect for you. |
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