asked this chick to come study with me

needhelpbad

so i asked this chick to come study with me

i've done kino with her, dhv, negged her, the usual pick up stuff but i'm still a beginner like big time beginner

so i thought what the hell and i messaged her saying i'm gonna be studying tommorrow so if you want to join just call me and she did but she said she has to go to work

so how am i supposed to take that as?

keep on trying with her or go after some one else..

also, should i try the cube or the 5 question with her??

also, should i even have asked in the first place, was it a typical AFC question?

arggggh so much stuff to learn and i'm getting frustrated that i won't be able to learn the material.

stekehmrt · Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 6:29 pm Post subject: ds

lol

im n00b aswell.

but..
i think it was kinda smart to text message her about studying. the reason why she called off must be because something more important.. at least thats what she tries to make u believe.
a cocky thing to say is that studying with you is far more interesting than she was probably gonna do.
but on the other hand.. im not sure if she would fall for it because studying is not that interesting most of the time..
difficult. but i would probably send something like "no problem" kinda text message. like u dont care. cuz otherwise you would get to look like a real afc or worse.

grtz

xxIcexx · Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 6:50 pm Post subject:

well if she has work, she has work, if you find out that she didnt have work, then well you know the drill

move on

needhelpbad · Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:07 pm Post subject:

ok so say suppose that she does have work cuz thursdays are her off days from school

what then

keep on asking her or try to stay away from her for a while and then ask

btw when would be a good time to ask again but for something more fun and not just studying..

also, did i come on a little too strong or did i seem AFC ish

i just want to know what i can do better if i was in a similar situation

also stekemrt

i did neg her about the fact that she has to go to work and made it seem not important

and i didn't answer to her when she said she had work i just went on to a different topic like it didn't even bother me that she couldn't come.

xxIcexx · Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:45 pm Post subject:

try it sometime again when there is a test coming up

The Doctor · Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:48 pm Post subject:

well my adive would be don't seem desperate. Just wait until it feels like a good time to ask her out some place again. And when you ask her... don't really ask her... I'd say something like

ME: Do you like coffee?
HB: Of course!
ME: Ok tommorow 1, we're gunna go drinnk coffee then!

If she protests that she can't then... Then use a sales trick... Don't ask when is good for her give her 2 options of your choosing and ask which ones better for her then close it.

HB: OF sorry I can't then
ME:Hmm well I'm really slammed
ME:Tell you what I'm available thursday at 2, or friday at 10, which ones better for you?
HB:...uh friday at 10
ME: Friday at 10 it is! See you at the Corner Starbucks!

something to that general effect should do the trick

needhelpbad · Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 9:53 pm Post subject:

needhelpbad · Posted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 11:16 pm Post subject:

ok so today i was talking to her again

i didn't mention anything about her working the other night

although i did ask if she studied and she said somewhat

so anyways, while we were sitting down and talking, she was running her hand around her hair and playing with it, curling it, and putting it around her mouth

so 1 is that an IOI or was it just that she's bored and disinterested.

2. i really wanted to do the 5 questions or the cube on her, but i choked up and froze and that kinda pissed me off...should i try again or forget that routine and try something else.

so any advice/tips??

oh btw, i'm also going out on my first night of sarging, any tips on that???

Cloudsreturn · Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 10:34 pm Post subject:

Don't be afraid to use techniques on her like the cube and 5 questions. Remember in your head you're thinking that you want to get with this girl. However she's thinking that you're just talking to her. So don't be afraid to use material on her.

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