Rufas Kuffe wrote:
Not text but online messages. I hope that still counts:
Her: Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you.
me: you can take me out for coffee and i'll tell you all you want to know
her: cheeky monkey
me: hey, you keep calling me names and i won't let you take me out for coffee
her: oh dear, silly me
me: are you humouring me?
her: well i am a pisces
me: does that mean you're going to put a dampener on my fire?
her: no but pisces fish like to be chased lol
me: leo lions aren't used to being chased. they're used to people falling at their feet...
her: dead end.
her: i'm bored now. good luck. bye.
I'm thinking as I'm the prize i'm not going to dignify her with a response.
From the looks of this, you are taking the whole cocky funny thing a bit too far, it coming across as unattractive and ugly. What you want to do is provide the girl with fun and flirty conversation. You mannerism says " You have to chase me" however you do not say these things verbally. She really put herself out their by paying you a compliment and coming after you first. She was already chasing you, to push it further creates the opposite effect. You were beating a dead horse on that one buddy.
Now lets say a girl wrote to me "Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you."
I would project to her that she has to try a bit harder and chase me more by simplifying replying with " Awesome!
Now she has to provide me with more conversation to hold my interest, I'm subtly saying " Try harder".. Girls do it to us all the time. She will then begin asking questions about you because she has already put herself out there and too give up now would make her look like an idiot. Instead you annoyed her and bored her...
Too many guys misinterpret the cocky funny... Keep it, "Fun and Flirty" and when a girl is chasing you, encourgae her to continue to do some, subtly and playfully, not directly.
This thread has ended, what I suggest you do now is start a new thread with her using her exact same line.
"Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you.
" just as a playful joke.
Ok. Here's how it went.
me: hi, you're handsome. I wanna know more about you
her: i've got bored. don't want to waste my time. bye.
me: Awesome. You don't like being bored or wasting your time and I like strong, confident women who are not afraid to stand their ground. So far so good.
her: don't know what to make of that.
me: Oh come now! You can do better than that. You were doing so well up until then. I'll give you another chance only this time try to put some effort into it.
her: just block me, delete me, whateva.
me: doing well, aren't we? we sound like a married couple already. lol
her: i can't be bothered to write.
me: so stop writing. lol.
right. none of this pua stuff anymore. i'm doing this my way from now on. no funny tricks. no cocky fucking funny...i'm just gonna be me. im already fucking funny. i dont need noo tricks...