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mii
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 Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 9:23 pm Post subject: approaching |
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| No matter how much i study routines and such when im in the field i just forget it all. Its sort of like when you study for a big test and when the test happens you just forget everything you studied. I also many of opener awkward i just cant see myself going up to somebody and just saying that. Also what are the best opportunities to approach |
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shurgs
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| Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 12:59 am Post subject: |
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Hey brother,'
if the routines are awkward to you, dont use them... say something they would say like...
best opportunities to approach.. everywhere man... park, grocery store, mall, restaurant, stay away from coworkers... theres nothing wrong with dating a coworker, but if it goes bad or you get obsessed could be bad for your career....
does this shirt make me look fat? is too awkward for you..maybe...
try...
leave one of your shoes untied and approach the girl and say ask her to tie your shoe for you because you shifted a disc in your back and cant bend down...
or try...
im sorry did u need to ask me something? i saw you looking at me, or were you just checking me out.... if so thats so rude.. im not a piece of meat you know |
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LoveMonkey
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| I like the shoe thing, maybe after that you could bend over and say "oh no this is all wrong" shell be like wtf did i just tie your shoe for.. idk lol |
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shurgs
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| Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 3:17 am Post subject: |
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yea or drop your cars out of your pocket and bend down and pick them up...
when she says wtf..
say i just wanted to make sure you were willing to help those in need...
wat do u think |
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magicman1234554
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| Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 10:51 pm Post subject: nervous |
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| one of the things you asked is when is the right time its alwaysd the right time. Unless you see the girl with her mom or shes like super super buys other than that you could always do it. Now if you feel weird about your openers use the fight one of your friend and the shoe box if you dont know what they are search them there good. Openers arent supposed to get the girls to drool all over you its just supposed to open up get the girl involved u need to use openers trust me. I felt akward to once you do it you develop a rythem and soon enouph you will be doing it to everyone. |
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magicman1234554
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| Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 11:18 pm Post subject: nervous |
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| one of the things you asked is when is the right time its alwaysd the right time. Unless you see the girl with her mom or shes like super super buys other than that you could always do it. Now if you feel weird about your openers use the fight one of your friend and the shoe box if you dont know what they are search them there good. Openers arent supposed to get the girls to drool all over you its just supposed to open up get the girl involved u need to use openers trust me. I felt akward to once you do it you develop a rythem and soon enouph you will be doing it to everyone. |
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mii
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Thanks for the tips guys. Could you explain some of these openers.
2) Stop looking at my ass!/Did you just grab my ass? (cocky, sexual bu dangerous)
4) Nice hair, I love the extensions/So did you buy that dress new?
Opinion openers |
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shurgs
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1.) Stop looking at my ass... is just a funny opener, bc typically guys are always checking girls asses out... so when you say stop looking at my ass you beat them to the punch...and they giggle and then you just start talking to them.
2.) Did you just grab my ass... basically falls under the same category as number 1.
3.) Nice hair i love the extensions.. is a neg..extensions are fake hair that is added on by a hairdresser... by you calling it fake you decrease her value and she feels inclined to defend herself thus increasing your value giving you the uppper hand...
If you were to say, hey i like your hair..she has aready heard that 5 times tonight by the last 5 guys..
BUT PUAs are different... you call it fake, shes sees u as a mystery.
4.) similar to three... this one says either she borrowed the dress off her friend or bought the dress used... again every other guy will say nice dress, but u as a pua say nice dress did u get it new... suggesting that it is used..and again she has to prove herself to you... |
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