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 Post subject: What did i do wrong?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 7:35 am 
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Hello,
So i'm really new to this and decided to try approaching a girl in a night club. first off, i went to the club alone cause nobody was willing to go. so i was just standing next to this beautiful blonde girl and i started talking to her, you know, the usual questions. I kept thinking she wasn't interested in a short ugly dude like me she was a solid 10 so i was a bit hesitant while talking to her. But she seemed to still hang around after 5 minutes of me talking about nonsense so i decided to buy her a drink. after that we went back to talking and i asked her if she wanted to dance. Now i'm really terrible at dancing and my body was stiff and i had terrible eye contact and i felt like she kept moving away from me to dance somewhere els. anyway after a while she just left and i was left alone lol. Later that night i saw her with another guy and felt great regret. i've been thinking about this nonstop and its bothering me how can i let it go?
Can someone tell me how i could've done this approach better? i feel like i shouldn't have asked her to dance since i'm terrible at it. i'm trying to improve my game and i'm still very stiff and awkward how can i improve? :D


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 Post subject: Re: What did i do wrong?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 7:59 am 
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Eros369 wrote:
I kept thinking she wasn't interested in a short ugly dude like me

If that's how you describe yourself to us, that's how you non-verbally describe yourself to others. I'm pretty sure "guy who thinks low of himself" is hardly on a woman's priority list.
If you don't like your outlook go to a stylist and get a haircut to compliment your head shape/face.
Buy fitting clothes and dress overall better.
Subscribe to a gym.
And accept your height for what it is. There's plenty of girls shorter than you or of similar height.

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Eros369 wrote:
she was a solid 10

Stop putting women on a pedestal. I get it, she's hot. So what? that alone makes her a goddess to be worshiped? Before she even opens her mouth?

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Eros369 wrote:
so i decided to buy her a drink

You decided to buy her attention for a bit longer.

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Eros369 wrote:
i asked her if she wanted to dance.

Don't ask. Take her hand and go to the dancefloor.

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Eros369 wrote:
Now i'm really terrible at dancing and my body was stiff and i had terrible eye contact and i felt like she kept moving away from me to dance somewhere els.

Then why did you decide to dance? And it should be obvious that eye contact is important.

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Eros369 wrote:
Later that night i saw her with another guy and felt great regret. i've been thinking about this nonstop and its bothering me how can i let it go?

I'm not saying this to offend you, but that's pathetic. You bought a girl a drink in a club, then saw her with another dude. And now you act as if you witnessed your fiancee sucking some guy off in the middle of the dancefloor.

You need to work on that frailness. Women already own a pussy. They don't need another.

PS: Congrats on taking the club alone. And also for actually approaching.

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 Post subject: Re: What did i do wrong?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 8:04 am 
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Quit second guessing yourself. When you're with a girl, never question if she's interested or not. Keep pushing forward until you meet resistance and adjust accordingly. What you're doing is being so unsure of yourself that you don't get out of that "nice to meet you" moment and she's going to sense that that's all you have to offer.

EDIT: And what RC said.

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