Hey yall, I have been thinking about approaching and what I've been doing to open at the begin of this year. Looking back, all went really natural really - not totally smooth, but still natural - and I remember nothing from my first time meeting with the new girls from my class, meaning whatever I said or thought was not important.
So I'm wondering, what is a good way to always approach naturally, with practically a 0% chance that something goes wrong or that you get "rejected", since a natural approach really is just to get to meet a girl, especially in a school situation where approaches are warm. What mindset is needed, or what things do you need to remember, to be super smooth from the very start?
You won't be able to get an answer because of the conditions that you've put in place.
What do you mean exactly with that? Just saying that isn't helpful either.
I'm not excluding the fact that a girl could reject you anyway for any reason, her being a bitch or whatever...
I meant with this, that I wanted to know an approach that really is to just talk to her and getting to meet her. Something to break the ice, not to pick her up. But yeah, she could still act like a bitch because of circumstances.
But what I meant with practically 0% of failure is that, after mastering a natural approach, being confident in yourself, that almost nothing could go wrong on your side. It could only go wrong when she's being a bitch at that moment. That's why I want to know what a good mindset is so you could become good enough like that.
This might all be wishful thinking, but hey, I'm here to learn.