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PostPosted: Sat Jun 24, 2017 5:51 pm 
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Hi im 25 years old i have unlearned alot of stuff when it comes to approaching Strangegirls on the Street during a Festivel or at the Club.

During an Open Air Festivel there are tons of Womans walking arround the first thing wich i found verry difficult is actually make them stop while they walk saying hello randomly is not enough 99% of the time they keep Walking even if u say hello pretty loud.

The second problem is how can i make the Girl stay and not leave their allwas leaving i can open with some random opener like how are you where you from do you like the music? whats your name but im running out of matterial verry fast the girls im approaching either get borred emedetly or i just scare them away i dont know if i have to change my looks or the things i say dont know where my mistakes are and if i dont know them its verry hard to correct them i gotta say it takes me like 4-5 Drinks before i can manage to open sets but like ive said before i get rejcted emedetly or if i hook the set it stays 3-4 min max and then the girls walk away

I got the courrage i think im missing knoweldge any tipps?


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 25, 2017 1:51 am 
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You're approaching it as a game of bowling (I have to knock these pins down right NOW) rather than a day out on the water fishing (this is fun, I'm going to relax and if a fish bites I'll reel it in, if not, who cares, I'm enjoying myself). The fact that you're using the alcohol as a crutch proves this. I was once in your situation.

They're moving on because of your energy and how you are behaving towards them. The fact that you've referenced them as "Strangegirls on the Street" proves this.

You are the prize.

In a festival interaction, like any other interaction, you ideally are going to want to speak to the woman as though she's already your girlfriend, with social calibration. Picture what different energy this is as opposed to the more "excuse me, hi, what's your name" stranger energy. They can tell that you want to "get" something from them as opposed to wanting to share your value with them and seeing if they stack up and are cool enough to hang with you. Come with comfortable and casual energy and they're compelled to seek out more of what you've got.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 25, 2017 1:58 am 
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Hi im 25 years old i have unlearned alot of stuff when it comes to approaching Strangegirls on the Street during a Festivel or at the Club.

\y i dont know if i have to change my looks or the things i say dont know where my mistakes are and if i dont know them its verry hard to correct them i gotta say it takes me like 4-5 Drinks before i can manage to open sets but like ive said before i get rejcted emedetly or if i hook the set it stays 3-4 min max and then the girls walk away

I got the courrage i think im missing knoweldge any tipps?


Changing up your looks can never hurt. Just look presentable. Maybe even peacock a bit. look like your having fun. As for the drinks thing i think your overthinking it. It's because your nervous, its been a while i get it but, you gotta cut that shit out. How? Do something really embarrassing before you hit these festivals. Like scream at the top of your lungs in the middle of the road while people are walking by. Get a nice fresh dose of real embarrassment and opening up sets with girls will be like talking to granny's at church.

Make's game easier

Also i think getting drunk before picking up girls is kind of a turn off because immediately the girls can tell your drunk and if they're not then they will most likely dismiss you as what your are. A drunk guy trying to pick up chicks.

Alright boss heres some tips.

If girls are walking and you want to stop them never approach from the back. That's what purse snathcers and rapist do. Real creep deal. Approach from either the front while talking over your shoulder or from the side with like a double take or something

Make sure you stop the girls too. Walking alongside them is also weird.

Openers dont really matter but if you need something start with either mystery or humor.

"I gotta tell you something real important but i dont have much time."
Her:"ok....."
"It's really important, like mind-blowingly important so promise you wont shit yourself"
Her:(smirking or whatever)"ok..."
(serious as ever)I like pickle juice
If you get a laugh, laugh with her and initiate a little kino( light shoulder or arm brushing)
If she takes you seriously neg her for being a stick in the mud.

But openers don't matter, false time constraints do.(false time constraint="Hey i don't have much time i gotta get back to my friends) This buys you a solid 30 seconds of comfortable woman... which is all you'll ever need.

A great thing about that opener is that it is spontaneous it makes the girl feel something and immediately makes you moderately interesting. Once you get that bit of emotion(get her to feel something) you can move onto the next step which could be literally anything.(Im not writing a book here)

if they're getting bored after a couple of minutes then you arent really making anything happen. Once you got them laughing and interested. MOVE SOMEWHERE.

Isolation baby. "Hey, its kinda loud here lets head to that bench over there". This is both compliance and dominance. If she agrees then you just successfully approached a chick and got her interest. If she denies judge the situation.....if it seems to be going good neg her a bit and get the number close(falling back on the whole "I gotta meet up with my friends")

Sometimes your games not tight though and you eat shit. That's cool, keep it moving, but keep picking up. One of my favorite things to do when i leave is leave them with something to think about. One last neg over my shoulder. with a smile "Your tags sticking out by the way".

Again these are just tips i suggest doing a bit of studying on Daygame and maybe bringing a wing along

just my bit


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 25, 2017 3:00 pm 
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you can get them to stay by teasing

teasing will make her laugh and make her want to actually stay a bit longer
talking with you.

you can say "I can already tell you and me are not gonna get along"

by using teasing it will create attraction and at the same time

build a little bit of comfort

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 7:47 pm 
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I have a feeling your energy and vibe are wack. Too unconfident and trying too hard.

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I have a feeling your energy and vibe are wack. Too unconfident and trying too hard.

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