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Any ideas or opinions on authoritative pick ups? What I mean is instead of being funny or interesting, try to command authority over her like saying seriously "stop, you cant walk there". If she obeys she is in the mindset to submit to your next command. Just a thought...
I actually had experience with stuff like this, and contrary to what most guys here say, it DOES work.
However, there is a twist to it.
My experience with using it the first time was when I was in this club, and saw 2 girls standing there talking
to each other.
I walked over there, and said to both of them, "Hey, give me your hands." And I just held up my hands up
so they can put their hands on mine.
To my surprise, they did, and I took two steps back, and leaned on the wall. And then I said, "how's your night
going?"
I was too surprised that they responded really well. I was like, "holy shit, this actually works."
The key really was in my conviction. I wasn't nervous or tense, I was really relaxed and confident.
It's very easy to come of as too serious as you do this, so I found that it works best if you can use that
to open the conversation, and then add a smile or a wink to it.
It really depends on the character that you are, make sure this is authentic to you. I am more serious by
nature and direct, which works for me. Find your own style and play with it.
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