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PostPosted: Mon Mar 20, 2017 12:59 pm 
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100 approaches!

My journey started exactly 2 months ago (zero approaches) and this weekend I did my 100th approach (from daygame only). So I’m very proud of myself putting in the work and taking the action.

What did I learn so far?

- There will always be approach anxiety. However if you keep and build momentum it changes from anxiety to resistance and it gets easier and easier to do…
- Approaching is only the start, it might be the scariest part but it’s actually the easiest part.
- You need to try to stop the girls. Bring them in your world.
- Approaching with the intention of just number closing will get you A LOT of flakes

Results?

The actual results are rather disappointing. I think I number or fb closed about 15 of my approaches. About 90% flaked after texting.
I ended up with 1 date (actually my first real “date”), she was really introverted, I tried kino but I didnt close. Wasn’t really really attracted to her so I kind of let her go.
Apart from the instadate this weekend I didn't get anymore results from daygaming…
Is this normal?

Now what?

- Need to focus on keeping in set.
- Establish connection and take your time for it.
- Try to go on insta dates

Honestly I’m not really sure where to go from here.
Could use some advice? Especially on building a connection and learning to flirt.


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 Post subject: Re: 100 approaches later
PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2017 5:57 am 
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You're on the right track. Just keep going on the path that you're already on. You're right about 2 things..constantly work on numbing yourself to your Approach Anxiety, and work on establishing deeper connections with the girls that you approach (by staying in set longer and longer).


Also, keeping a performance log of your daily sarging, should help you identify the things that you can improve upon in the field. sticking-points/make-daily-log-help-you-identify-what-you-need-tweak-vt201648.html


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 Post subject: Re: 100 approaches later
PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2017 6:28 am 
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Great work. Really great work. You're on the right track.

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 Post subject: Re: 100 approaches later
PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2017 7:06 am 
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Blathering on with time in the set can work against you in many ways. The most important factor is forming very warm bonds with the girls so they're aching to see you again. You need to convince yourself that you already know this girl who you just met. She'll feel it.

Good job, keep going.


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 Post subject: Re: 100 approaches later
PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2017 7:43 am 
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You're doing well. Nobody became a millionaire over night.

I think I mentioned this before, but insta dates will reduce flaking considerably. And your goal is not to "close", it's to form a connection that will prove a prospect.

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