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deprok
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 Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 12:12 am Post subject: approaching a lifeguard HB |
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I was at the beach today, i was looking at this HB and she happened to be a lifeguard, sitting there ever so bored and lonely on her high chair, i was thinking of walking up to her and say "must be nice to get paid to sit on your ass all day" and meanwhile the 2 girls i brought with me only had tan enhancer and no tanning lotion and my white ass was about to burn in the sun so i was thinking of talking to this HB and hopefully getting lotion outta her, i mean, a lifeguard chick, im sure she had some tanning lotion but i just couldn't get my balls together to get in and say that, anyone got advice as far as building up moment confidence and gettin the balls to just say the opener, im just starting out in my journey as a PUA so im at the beginning and just need some confidence boost exercise suggestions or something of that sort.  |
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Rythms
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| Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:46 am Post subject: |
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| Seems your problem isn't with the operner. It's your confidence. Go to the Inner game section and search through there, there is plenty helpful stuff. Carlos Xuma has some great stuff on confidence, google him. |
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Fasho
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| Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 6:31 am Post subject: |
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| try the sandlot approach and pretend to drowned. when she does mouth to mouth, kiss her |
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Apollo
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| Fasho- I love that you just brought up Sandlot. Hahahahaha |
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Chill
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I have been a lifeguard for about 6 years, and if it is one thing that I hate, it is when people approach me on the stand. Believe it or not, all that sitting around on your ass has a purpose. They have to constantly be watching the water and what not. I would strongly discourage a stand approach because if she is any good at her job at all, she will be very upset. I reccomend waiting until her shift is over (a shift is hardly ever longer than 2 hours) and approach after she has transferred her saftey responsiblities over to someone else. As far as the confidence problem goes, just relax for god sakes. Whats really the worst that can happen? She walks away.
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deprok
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| Chill wrote: | I have been a lifeguard for about 6 years, and if it is one thing that I hate, it is when people approach me on the stand. Believe it or not, all that sitting around on your ass has a purpose. They have to constantly be watching the water and what not. I would strongly discourage a stand approach because if she is any good at her job at all, she will be very upset. I reccomend waiting until her shift is over (a shift is hardly ever longer than 2 hours) and approach after she has transferred her saftey responsiblities over to someone else. As far as the confidence problem goes, just relax for god sakes. Whats really the worst that can happen? She walks away.
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there was 2 people in water at the beach, it was fella boring and dead for that day so she was bored outta her mind, i saw her body language, relaxed and careless, i dont think she woulda mind being approached, she was bored anyway so if something interesting came up, im sure she woulda followed |
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Chill
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| In that case. you should have moved on her |
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Cross
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I would have said something like this: Hey! I'd probably drown on purpose just to make your day... chirst you are having a hell of a time up there...  |
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Cretin105
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confidence boost . . .
What i normally do it just tell myself that i will never see this person again . . I mean i could make a complete ass of myself and yet tomorrow will still come and i either make it or break it with the girl . . Who cares though right u got XXX many more girls in ur social circle u dont need this one |
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