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 Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 4:05 am Post subject: AM GETTING LAID??? HELP!!!!!!! |
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Ok I need some help and advice....
I know this cute girl, a hb7, really cute face! Iv chatted wit her a couple of times in school and on aim. Iv been playing cocky funny since I met her, and use push n pulls all the time on aim "she says I play her." She has an exBF, a dude I know, he's known to be a thug, he's smaller than me but no doubt he knows alot of people... he's the jelous type even though their not together anymore.
Anyways I chill wit her at school every so often, talk n have fun teasin her cuz she's so short(negs). Iv been chatting with her on aim for a few days now, she's been giving me plenty of IOI's.. ok well check this convo on aim(am writing this as we're chatting!!):
---------------------- 11:12 pm ----------------------
Me: Yo
Her: Hey
Me: Why r u still awake little girl?
Her: Y r u still awake?
Me: Don't change the subject!
Her: Wats da subject?
Me: You
Her: Ok
Her: Im up touchin maself
Me: Aww how cute!!
Me: Cute little perv
Her: Don u wish u were here?
Me: Nah I wish you were her
Me: Here*
Her: Awww
Her: Wat would u do wit me @ 11pm?
Me: Hmmmm
Me: Long answer: well its too long to write in aim
Me: Short answer: I'd fuck you
Her: Really?
Her: Would I like it?
Me: No
Me: You'd love it
Her: Lol
Her: Wow
Her: Sounds gud
Me: Yea I guess, u I enjoy it?
Me: Would*
Her: I can't lie
Her: I want u
Me: Then come and get me
Her: Damn
---------------------- 11:22 pm ----------------------
Me: What?
Her: I want u bad
Her: But don tell no1
Me: I won't...
Her: U promise?
Me: yea I promise
Her: If we did sumthin would u tell sum1?
Her: I take dat as a yea
Me: Hmm, ill say no, but
Me: What makes u think am that easy?
Her: Idk
Me: Lol
Her: I wana b wit a girl
Me: would u tell someone
Me: ?
Her: Hell no!
Me: U sure, not even ur closest friend?
Her: I don got friends like dat
Her: N + I don wana die
Me: Lol don't say that
Her: [her BF] can not find out
Me: Lol yeah I know, I don't wanna get beat the fuck up
Her: Lol
Her: Me either
---------------------- 11:32 pm ----------------------
Me: When did u say ur moving?
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Her: Next friday
Her: So u wana chill?
Me: When are you free
Her: Monday after chino goes 2 skool
Me: Ok what time is that?
Her: Like 330 4
Her: But we can't chill newhere public
Her: No1 can c or kno dat were gana b 2gether
Me: Hmm ok, lemme work some things out ill get back to u tommorow
Her: K jus plz don tell a soul not even [a friend of mine]
Me: Def not telling him, don't worry
Her: Ok
Her: How do u feel?
Me: Idk I can't explain it
Her: Lol well try
Me: Um weird...lol
Her: Did I make u feel weird?
Me: Lol yea
Her: Im sry
---------------------- 11:45 pm ----------------------
Her: We don have 2 chill
Me: Awwww don't say
Me: Lol its not in a bad way
Her: 0o0
Me: I gotta goto sleep, I wanna wake tommorowz cuz u know I love school!!!!!
Her: Lol ok
Her: But u kno its cause u wana c me
Her: Lol
Her: Jk
Me: Lol
Her: Ok gudnight
Me: Goodnight jill
Her: Xoxo
So yeah I just finished that conversation. Am still a virgin, I don't know what to do, please I need some help!!!! |
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Facher
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 4:58 am Post subject: |
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| Looks like she really likes you, since she tells you things she won't tell anyone else etc etc. GJ. |
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trackjunkie
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 10:43 am Post subject: |
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close close close
i dont how much easier it could get |
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nosferatu
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:14 pm Post subject: |
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| this is a total gimme. she's telling you that she's touching herself?!?! she's practically telling you to come over and nail her. |
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Fin
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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get the parents out the way (assuming you live at home) wine her, dine her, close her
good luck. |
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undefined
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| nosferatu wrote: | | this is a total gimme. she's telling you that she's touching herself?!?! she's practically telling you to come over and nail her. |
Lol, her touching herself is an inside joke from recent chats, but yeah I'm aware that she wants me to nail her. She told my sister today, I wasn't in school today because I went to a conference, so I dint see her.
Thing is, the last girl that liked me and wanted me to nail her, well I fucked it up, mainly because of my shyness I think, it really does lower your sexual value when your shy, I also seemed desperate now that I look back, I'm just paranoid, I feel I might fuck it up again... more advice? |
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Fin
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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You are sorted, go for it, seduce her in the method appropriate to your style, good luck man. 
YOU'RE NEXT POST ON THIS THREAD WILL INVOLVE YOU RETELLING YOU'RE SEX SESSION WITH HER!!
NO MORE EXCUSES OR IT ONLY PROVES TO YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE STILL SHY! |
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:45 pm Post subject: |
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| lol....dude u gotta bone her..... |
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undefined
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:12 am Post subject: |
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| Fin wrote: | You are sorted, go for it, seduce her in the method appropriate to your style, good luck man.
YOU'RE NEXT POST ON THIS THREAD WILL INVOLVE YOU RETELLING YOU'RE SEX SESSION WITH HER!!
NO MORE EXCUSES OR IT ONLY PROVES TO YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE STILL SHY! |
Thx Fin that advice was all I needed to really go for it. The day after this thread, I was working and she messeged me saying she was working and she wanted to see me, so I told her I'd go see her, like 5 minutes later I went,
she works in the same mall, so she was like a minute away. I began getting this cold akward feeling, which brought me back to my really shy days, but I kept what Fin said in mind, so I put it aside and I went for it, no excuses.
It wasn't akward, I led the conversation, I didn't bring up anything about us having sex on monday, instead I relaxed in a chair, she began talking about monday, I payed like 60% attention, because you know I don't wanna seem desperate and shit. So it came that we were going to do it in her house after school, I flirted a bit with her for like 3 more mins, then I decided to kiss her goodbye, when I was gonna kiss her on the cheek godbye I went for her lips.
Now some of you are probably like wow, you kissed her a bit, but you don't know me, before thered be no way I'd ever do that because of my shyness, I have moved on! am not shy anymore, I just need more confidence now.
Well anywho she IMed me later saying she like how I kissed her because it caught her by surprise and shit. (o_-)
Well as you can see today, monday came. Nothing happened, here's why.... she said she had a bad feeling or something, and I didn't push it so she ended up going out with her ex....
well although I didn't get laid atleast I know I went for it, I can say am not shy now, I just need to strenghten my confidence, as for that girl, well ill probably make her feel bad, she has a week before she moves so she still has a chance, but its really up to me, that's my frame am working on (o_-) |
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Mr. Attraction
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:30 am Post subject: |
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sorry mate i dont understand why ur on the net and not at her house lol!!heres the simplest thing to do..
Ring her tell her to come over, when she gets over kiss her and rip her clothes off lash a rubber jacket on and bone the living fuck out her dont think about how shy u are ur the man this bird wants u wats there to be shy about??
Sex is like doing drugs its always scary the 1st time but after its the greatest thing in the world.
PS im not promoting drug use!!  |
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undefined
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:43 am Post subject: |
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That doesn't sound very planned out, but hey fuckit am here to take advice from random dudes, so you-so-wud, ill do it ill find out when she's free and invite her over. (O_o)
Any other advice will be appreciated |
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Mr. Attraction
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im telling u man BE DIRECT. My Motto is Making Friends with women is the 1st step to failure!!
When i say direct i dont mean say lets fuck just be yourself bring her into your room make out for a while foreplay is everything my good man u dont really want to plan it out just invite her over and take it slow oh and make sure u got kid stoppers. |
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 3:12 am Post subject: |
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take her from behind and whisper in her ear:
"i wana wax that ass" |
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 3:26 am Post subject: |
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| Your past attraction(stop negging). Past comfort (stop being just the nice guy). Now seduce(close already!!!). Get her to come over and ESCALATE KINO!!! If your shy, just start with stroking her hands and arms. Build up to hugging and holding. Kiss. Make out. Tell her you should slow down, then speed up at your will. This will stop any LMR on her part. then F-close. Just do it already. |
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