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havingfun
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 Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 6:28 am Post subject: Already Improving :) |
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Hey guys, I have been reading the MM over the last few weeks and I started implanting some of the stuff of what I read to regular people, not to people at clubs and whatever but people that I already know.
Anyways, it's helping 
I use to think girls LIKED being treated nice to and being talked nice to, but now I realize that sometimes you have to be an asshole, as long as it's in a playful way, in order to attract females. To be honest, this isn't hard for me either, it's easier to be "jerkish" I just never acted like a complete one (I always was a little bit naturally cocky) because I thought that people didn't LIKE that, now I realize that I was really holding back my more TRUE personality.
To remain in my anonymity, I don't want to go into specifics, but lets just say classmates that I would consider 8+ and before use to be all "cocky" and "think there the shit" are now laughing at my jokes and actually chilling w/ me because I put them in their place in a fun, but confident manner.
Anyway imma try to hit up a few parties to see how I can get complete strangers, rather then people that I am already comfortable with. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 8:53 am Post subject: |
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| You'll be amazed at how MM techniques will affect people that are totally strangers to you also. |
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snubby (aka Zen)
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| Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 4:21 pm Post subject: Re: Already Improving :) |
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| havingfun wrote: | | I realize that sometimes you have to be an asshole, as long as it's in a playful way, in order to attract females. |
The key word there is "playful". As long as you're having fun and they're having fun, it's all good. Whether it's cocky/funny, Mystery Method, or just plain old teasing, it's a good way to blow away the tension that can build up when talking to women. It helps everyone relax and creates a playful context in which to interact.
Glad to hear it's working for you. Rock on! |
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havingfun
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Yeah, even when I get girls mad, it seems I can always defuse them by saying "Oh Calm Down..."
or "Breathe..."
Something along those lines, done playfully.
They usually just smile/laugh afterwards.
I have a playful personality so I guess that helps. |
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snubby (aka Zen)
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| Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Yeah, if it seems natural to your personality, it works about 100 times better. |
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