Yeah uhm.. Men are different than women. All a woman has to do is stress or emphasize her assets (tits & ass), and play hard to get. You should get any man to look at you. If he has the balls, he'll come up to you.
If he doesn't, you could give him (or better: on of his friends) a clear IOI, so that he will approach. I wouldn't recommend you approaching a guy, frankly. A man is like a little child: he wants what he can't have. Whatever is within his reach is not interesting. So if you approach a man, you'll convey the non-verbal message that 'he can have you if he wants'.
You have to make him dream about you, be the top of the mount everest. Oh, and let other guys than the target hit on you, don't come of as a slut (pardon my French), but as a classy lady that only hangs out with the elite of men.
If you ask a guy to thumbwar with you, you don't really convey that you're special, and you're out of his league.
Oh, and another thing: the fundamental difference between male and female seduction is the following:
Women look for a man who will be loyal to her if she would give birth, who can maintain her and her children, who can protect her. This is written, it's in your system. So what will a girl look for in a man? Loyalty, strength, good genes (including looks) to bear a good child.
Now a man is programmed to do one thing, and one thing only: to distribute as much of his semen as possible. So what does a man look for in a woman? Looks. A nice ass, to bear a healthy child, big breasts to feed the child,... So a woman that will 'produce' a strong child with his genes.
Of course this is all a bit relative in modern times, but it's still the fundamentals of our existance.
So basically: an ugly man can have a beautiful woman, as long as has the personality and a strong position in society.
an ugly woman will probably not be able to hook up with a good-looking man, because he'll be hooking up with the best looking women.
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