What up guys, it's been a while since I've posted something in a while, but I feel quite good about how things are going.
About a 3 weeks ago I added two wings. Garth and Arif. For the first time of my daygame career I managed to do a full Yad stop. Now I'm doing it without fail and without anxiety, most of the time.
Today me and Arif went to UCT. A vibrant university, ideal for daygame. To get in state, I listened to a very powerful piece of music and had some conversations with foreigners on the train. Got off the bus stop, saw the girl, went into my head and blew myself out before even approaching.
Met up with Arif who was already opening a set inside the cafeteria. I parked closeby and just had basic convo with the other people around me. Did a couple of warm up sets. And approached a beautiful blonde girl with an interesting top and told her she looks amazing. She couldn't stop laughing, couldn't believe her ears that a random guy will just walk up to her and tell her that. Now although she walked off and apologetically tell me she have a boyfriend, it made her day.
I did some more approaches about 5 - 6 and boyfriend rejections were very common. Then my wing had some trouble to approach a seated set. I showed him how easy it is. I went in, sat down immediately and had a great interaction with a girl who was very receptive. That was by far, one of my best sets ever. She hugged me, in the hug I kissed her, and she walked off, still wondering what the fuck just happened to her, was that real?? Well it sure is. Got her number and I'm seeing her again.
It's quite interesting what happens. You'll do some warm up sets, get blown out a couple of times, hit gold with one or two, and move on.
Just as a summary, here's my estimated numbers so far after almost 2 months of consistent daygame.
13 March 2014 - 12 May 2014
120 - 150 Approaches in 59 days
30 - 40 Number-close (90% of these numbers are flakes)
3 Kiss close
1 Bounce-back
10 -20 Leads
90 - Rejections, blowouts, boyfriends, lesbians
What I've realised is when I'm with my wing, I do a lot more sets, but I deliberately shorten my sets in order to hear how my wing did. Only thing is, when you do short sets, you have to be Mode One. You can't go soft and have a "friendly chat" because even if you get the number it will likely flake. Staying longer in set however is good to create an emotional connection, together with some sexual tension, but then you still have to close.
There seems to be a fine balance between... wasting 10 - 15 mins only get BF rejection... vs 3 - 5 mins and getting a flaky number. _________________ "Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi
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