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Roadblkx
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| I am going to a HUGE public university this fall.. about 30, 000 students. Do the same social circles stand here, or is it just so big that you won't recognize too many people and will always be meeting new people? how should I approach it differently since it is so large? |
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Suryus
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| Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 9:27 am Post subject: |
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Hi, I don't think I know you yet, I'm Bla bla
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Roadblkx
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| Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 1:05 pm Post subject: |
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| I am talking about regarding the social circles... |
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Trumpcard
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| Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 9:22 pm Post subject: |
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| V3nu wrote: | | Trumpcard wrote: | | What about gaming campus badboy style? This social sircle bs is just not for me. Got to much on my plate to make friends with popular 5th yr grandpa's studyin 3yr courses. |
Dude if you have that attitude in college/uni, i don't think you are going to get far, because college/uni is more of a social game and social proof.... |
Thanks, iv pretty much realised that college is all about the social scene, however I do feel that the core principles of attraction and comfort stays the same. But enough of my opinions, im going to test direct and then improve from there. |
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Exhumed
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| Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:05 pm Post subject: |
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Where are you going? I'm at penn state.
And the rules are a bit different...you should still focus on creating a good social circle but there will always be ways to meet new people, and you can practice your game on random girls without having to worry about too many repercussions. You won't really be able to get a reputation with the entire campus so "social status" is only a concern within a social circle. Social circle game should still be utilized but you can definitely use some traditional pickup methods...just be direct, don't use opinion openers, don't be afraid to get a little drunk at parties; some might say it's a crutch but people will judge you if you don't drink.
And you will run into people you recognize quite often even if it's a large campus...if you're not making an effort to hang out with someone you'll probably see the person about once a week assuming they don't live near your dorm. |
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zcoreman
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| Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 9:19 pm Post subject: |
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Hey exhumed.
whats up bro I am also at Penn state and I totally agree with you on your post. It is tough to get a reputation with 40,000 people and around 20,000 girls lol.
I think its a lot easier to party with a common crowd and build connections downtown.
Its too awkward and tough to really make a strong pickup in the Paterno library or even the HUB
What are your thoughts. What are some of the pickup methods you recommend for a setting such as the library
I am in my first semester at PSU but I am a junior transfer. |
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FelixO
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| Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2009 9:15 am Post subject: |
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| So I'm a month into university in UK and have been ill on and off ending up in hospital, is it too late to meet people and get a better status? |
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FelixO
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| Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2009 9:17 am Post subject: |
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| So I'm a month into university in UK and have been ill on and off ending up in hospital, is it too late to meet people and get a better status? |
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Lucky9
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| Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 11:15 pm Post subject: |
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| Good Informational post |
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Profi
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| not gonna lie zcoreman, i think getting girls at the library is tacky. i have a bunch of good looking cousins im pretty close with and i hear about all these guys that approach them in the library and never heard a story of a succesful one, just them bitching about these guys. granted, i once got a dinner date and a great hookup from the only girl i ever hit on in a library before i even knew what the game was, but even she remarked at how guys approached her there and she didnt really like it (confusing much?). |
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Glowstick
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| Profi wrote: | | not gonna lie zcoreman, i think getting girls at the library is tacky. i have a bunch of good looking cousins im pretty close with and i hear about all these guys that approach them in the library and never heard a story of a succesful one, just them bitching about these guys. granted, i once got a dinner date and a great hookup from the only girl i ever hit on in a library before i even knew what the game was, but even she remarked at how guys approached her there and she didnt really like it (confusing much?). |
library game-- if you come in there giving them a little bit of a break from studying with some fun talk there not going to blow you out, if you do it seeking an outcome you prolly wont make to much headway
catch eye contact, smile, open with "gotta love studying..... ask her what shes studying for blah blah blah, fluff talk, then say well hey you seem like a pretty smart girl, lets hang out sometime when were not in the library, #close, day2 fclose...got em ----done it before
not to mention meeting girls daygame style less flaky then meeting them at college parties
to felix its never to late to meet people, you just talk to people, end up finding some parties to go to on the weekend and continue making friends there
zcoreman, nothing is awkward unless you make it awkward, you see a cute girl at the library and you want to talk to her you do it, i doubt shes gonna blow you out at the library with a stop bothering me, if your getting the vibe she doesent want to talk eject
roadblkx- you would be suprised at how many people actually know each other, i go to ohio state which has the one of the biggest campuses and im doing things with girls and turns out these girls know these people and so on and so forth
All im saying is social game still applies the bigger social circle you have the better, and also make sure you dont get a bad rep because its hard to shake it
at the same time dont worry about gaming random girls just be direct and try to make friends, everyone is pretty open to friendship, especially in college |
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