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This is pretty good stuff . I Do A Lot Of The Positive Things He Pointed Out While Talking To A Target , But Then I Also Do Alot Of Negative Stuff.

Such as , the saying "Um" or "Ah" while speaking. so i need some feild time to practice.

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Is there any good book focused mostly on body language and voice tonlity?


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The reason this is such a good post to me is because ive found myself to be guilty of alot of these things listed.


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KB wrote:
19) Holding too much eye contact when the other person
speaks. Ignore the dating advice books that tell you to hold
non-stop eye contact. Non-stop eye contact makes you look
needy, socially retarded, and, frankly, like a weirdo. Instead
let your eyes blur and then gaze at her eyes. Look through
her rather than at her. From extensive testing, I've found
that gazing at a woman about two-thirds of the time is
optimal. By the way, only hold the gaze when she's telling
you something genuinely interesting. Otherwise, focus on other stuff like her breasts, her hair, things going on around
you, etc.


Doesn't this almost go against everything in 60 yoc?


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Good post. I need to watch out for when I do some of these things myself.


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They Call Me Lucid wrote:
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Otherwise, focus on other stuff like her breasts, her hair, things going on around


Great post... im just not quite sure how staring at her tits will work


i was thinking the same thing. i would stay away from this unless you were the shit and could stare at whatever the hell you wanted.

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I actually used these cues the other day during a job interview. I'll let you know when they get back to me loollll

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lolaskate wrote:
KB wrote:
19) Holding too much eye contact when the other person
speaks. Ignore the dating advice books that tell you to hold
non-stop eye contact. Non-stop eye contact makes you look
needy, socially retarded, and, frankly, like a weirdo. Instead
let your eyes blur and then gaze at her eyes. Look through
her rather than at her. From extensive testing, I've found
that gazing at a woman about two-thirds of the time is
optimal. By the way, only hold the gaze when she's telling
you something genuinely interesting. Otherwise, focus on other stuff like her breasts, her hair, things going on around
you, etc.


Doesn't this almost go against everything in 60 yoc?


Yea, that's a good point. With two blatantly different philosophies regarding eye contact, how can we know what is true?

In my opinion, the tip suggested here to not stare so much is safer and more consistent with results. 60 years' philosophy seems to be more hit-or-miss, but when it hits it is more powerful than the method described here.


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KB wrote:
24) Using long, convoluted sentences. Alphas keep it short
and to the point. If you’re tempted to use long sentences,
break them up.!


I agree with everything in the list except for this. This rule seems tacked-on and unnecessary.

Knowing "big words" and using them to construct complex sentences can be a DHV.

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I found out some good things, I didn't knew. Thank you man!


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It was a great post and I got alot out of that. I kept picturing myself doing the different things suggested and got a good visual.


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this post is really useful, this post alone could change somebody's entire game ! i hope AFC's take a good look at it and ABSORB the info ! +1 for OP

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Saying um or ah is just our brain catching up with our mouth. With time, confidence and practice you'll learn how to be effective and concise with what you say. You can do it consciously straight away, but it's hard to keep up. Try your hardest though, until your subconscious gets use to it, and thinks of it as 'fuck' in church


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You Have to sit there and think about it in every conversation you are having whether it be with friends,girls, coworkers, family or etc. You have to stop yourself slow down your speaking and really focus on what you are saying it also helps to really listen to the other person because then you won't focus on whether they are listining to you or not and opens you up to not using the umms and ahhhs


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I'm wondering about straight face/poker face I smile often (of course not creepy and needy smile...) but some PUA dont smile often and that just messes with HB's head. Like they cant see their facial expression so they cant figure out.

I'm confuced any one know any good article or topic for my question ? tnx


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