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Phate
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fakename123
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I've read Conquer Your Campus. It an alright read. I don't think it is worth the money, but it was the first material I read that actually talks specifically about college gaming. It is very short and most of the material is on social circle gaming. Read up on that online and you should be informed.
Its just stuff like be the life of the party, give love to everyone and make an effort to connect to everyone basically. |
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TX changeup
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This is my first post after lurking for a couple months...
I am going to be an upperclassman next year at a very big state school (15,000 about). I'm 6 feet tall, in shape, and a much better dresser than almost everyone at my college. Basically, I should be hooking up with HB 6's, 7's, and 8's, but I haven't really done much of this is my first couple of years.
At my school, people tend to drink with a few friends and then go to bigger house or apt. parties. I occasionally meet girls at parties, but tend to be way too shy and don't open at all. It pisses me off to see AFC's and worse-looking, shorter, random dudes pulling girls that I want.
When school starts, since I am new to trying to be a PUA, I hope to become more social and try to meet potential hook-ups in class, playing co-ed intramural sports (I am a good all-around athlete, possible DHV here), and at parties etc.
However, I definitely need some advice on what I should be doing, especially in terms of my party game. I will be living in a small house, so hopefully I can invite girls I meet over to my place for parties. Thanks in advance y'all. |
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Glowstick
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| Bedrock wrote: | So I was browsing a site when I came across and ebook called "Conquer Your Campus" by Mark Redman and Christian Hudson. Does anybody know if this is legit or complete shit?
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I read that book and i actually go to OSU in the same state as you haha, but yea after completing my first year of college(and reading that book in the winter qtr.) i could see how some of the ideas relate. Overall the book is primarily focused on social circles. If you want to keep in touch though and lay out college game get at me(as im still working it all out as well). Also, the under 21 convention has speakers that talk about college game and is somewhat directed towards that age group, and a whole new convention was just finished so who knows when all that audio will be out.
Basically what i would like to add from some first hand experience, is try not to hook up with the girls that might not be the hb10 your going for if there in the same social group. Also, public makeout sessions kind of give you a bad rep, as in sure i can go out and semi hook up with a girl at a party but her friends cb and if shes heard of you from her friends than that is basically a cb too(although it certain situations if the friend that told them is kind of the leader it has some benefits).
Through the course of the year there was only a handfull of girls, from all the ones i meant that i was really interested in, and the one towards the end of the year was dishin out excuses like "You hooked up with two girls from my floor" and "how many girls have you hooked up with since we meant" and so it was kind of like she was shit testing me, but if i would have handled situations better these shit tests wouldnt have even occured.(ie being a drunk ass and missin opportunities) Because this particular girl i kinoed and brought home the night i meant her and things went downhill from there. Of course theres more to the story because i was still really learning how to think and act like a pooah but live and learn i guess.
Really overall if i knew the game as well as i do now i could have had a way better first year, and dont get me wrong i am deffinatly no expert at picking up women although now im somewhat content, but striving to do better. |
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RubBuddhasBelly
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| Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 7:06 am Post subject: |
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| nice thread |
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Realtime
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| Just for any frosh or people new to university/college....just act like your the shit! Be uber confident around all the chicks, be funny. Be the one that is getting people togethor to go to the mall or go to parties. If people think you know exactly what your doing chances are theyr gonna try to follow you...especially the guys.And when girls see a guy with his own little entourage you value skyrockets in their eyes. In university all you need to do is worry about your alpha male image. You dont have to worry about competition, running around the bar trying to be the center of the entire party...forget it! That stuff is not needed in university. From my experience in university their are three types of girls you will get action from. Those who are desperate for you (the ones like omg hes so hot and are after u all the tyme)....Those who really like you but dont want to show it because theyr scared of looking like sluts (ASD) And the ones that you actually have to work for and that take time. For most of us guy especially those in first year who just want to get laid we dont care about the 3rd category. Now its important that for the desperate girls you neg them all the tyme. Most of these chicks are either slutty and want to play games with you or simply want to feel like they have some kind of control over you because they can get you in the sack so quickly. Now although that sounds appealing dont fall for it because after the first few make out seshes it all goes to shit. Theve proven their point and arnt interested in you anymore. So you have to make them work for it and this is where the neg comes in to play in an enormous way. As for the chicks who want to play games play along ...but annoy themalmost up to the point where they give up and then give them some. For the second category you want to make them feel like they are not responsible for liking you. Its not their fault!after all you sexy you! For example dont say..want to go back to my room and make out ...you know what i mean dont be direct ....say something like hey want to check out this cool shirt I bought or something like that so that when shit does go down their not responsible. |
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Trumpcard
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| Posted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 7:53 pm Post subject: |
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| What about gaming campus badboy style? This social sircle bs is just not for me. Got to much on my plate to make friends with popular 5th yr grandpa's studyin 3yr courses. |
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Bedrock
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| Posted: Fri Aug 21, 2009 7:06 am Post subject: |
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Well, after being on campus for a week, here is what I have learned about college game.. Or in my case just being the alpha male of my dorm. All you have to do is:
1) Connect with everyone. If you live in a dorm then go down the hallway, knock on each door and introduce yourself. Give compliments on something you notice they take pride in. For example it could be their size (in which case I'll give him the nickname He-Man if he's huge), the way they style their hair, an article of clothing, how cool their room looks. People like that shit. Oh and when I said connect with everyone, I meant EVERYONE. Invite the socially awkward guy out to grab some food with you or hit the gym. Yeah I know you're probably saying "fuck that" but the girls in your dorm will notice and talk about him later with you (college has the same amount of drama and gossip as high school so get used to it), they might ask you about the two of you being friends and you say something like "not really. I invited him to go out to eat with us because he doesn't seem to have any friends yet and I wanted to make him feel welcome and not so lonely ya know?" I did this, girls wanted to be with me for 24 hours a day.
2) Always be doing something. When you have free time don't stay locked up in your room watching tv, reading, or looking at porn. Get out and do something. Go hang at the student union, go workout at the rec center, go bowling, whatever it doesn't matter what you do just go out and have fun. Joining a club is a MUST. It helps you make plenty new friends. I'm in 3, I am always doing something and I must say, aside from sex, it is one of the most wonderful feelings in the world.
3) Do not concentrate on gaming at all the first week or 2 you move in. Just concentrate on getting to know everyone and making friends, as gay as it sounds its the truth. Solid social circles will help you game plenty of girls so don't even worry about it.
4) Be confident and funny. Self explanatory.
5) Don't let your social life become more important that your academics. That's what your there for and should be your main priority. As much fun as going out with the group to a club or a party sounds, if you have a test in biology tomorrow stay in and study.
You're the man.
| Trumpcard wrote: | | What about gaming campus badboy style? This social sircle bs is just not for me. Got to much on my plate to make friends with popular 5th yr grandpa's studyin 3yr courses. |
If you live in a dorm then all college will be is social circle gaming. If you don't have one build one immediately.
If your a commuter then its just regular game and you have nothing to worry about. |
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BigShot7
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| Posted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 6:41 pm Post subject: |
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| good post bedrock i like your style.... i start school next wednesday, in high school i always was quiet but i still had a lot of friends, this going door to door shit sounds like a good idea. gotta be that social butterfly |
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Trumpcard
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Thx for the post bedrock, yeah im a 3rd yr living off campus. All I really wana do is direct game on campus. Am I gna need social proof or preselection for that? Im in a couple of clubs, but not with any girls in them >.<; taking yoga - not for me 
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Forget about gaming chicks on campus, I'm gaming the bangin' librarian  |
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Arrakis
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Question about "banging on every door"...
My college residence is "Hotel-style"-i.e. instead of two people sharing one room, each gets their own room and share a kitchenette.
Also, we're not allowed to wedge our doors open (due to a bullshit fire hazard).
So my question is...does it hurt my social proof at all to be seen walking down the halls on the first day, knocking on each door to meet people? I don't want to come across a s a loser, yet I'd love to expand my social circle. |
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fakename123
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| Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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| If you are walking down the hall knocking on people's doors for no good reason, then maybe it won't be good. Just come up with a student excuse, like running for student government or checking to make sure everyones air conditioning is working. Be creative. Freshman year me and a friend would knock on random doors to check to see how many ethernet ports there were. |
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Bedrock
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 4:23 pm Post subject: |
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You don't a reason to knock on their door and introduce yourself. When I moved my brother into his dorm it started as us two just going out and knocking on his neighbors doors to introduce ourselves, and when it ended we had a group of 20+ going to every door on all 6 floors to introduce ourselves and we seriously met everyone that lived there. Have fun with it, invite the person who's door you just knocked on to come with you to meet everyone. Chances are that they'll come.
Also another thing I've learned is that you don't need a clever opener or the overused jealous girlfriend opener. You can open with a compliment. Sound AFC-ish? Doesn't matter. I do it all the time, all you have to do is transition from "I like your glasses, they're very styleish" to cocky funny and interesting stories.
No Arrakis it does not hurt your social proof to be seen trying to meet new people. Organize a "get-to-know-each-other-mixer-ice-breaker" type of bullshit in the lounge. Tons of people will come because they will want to meet more people. And with you organizing the event, that gives you social proof and you'll be seen as socially intuitive. |
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| Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 2:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Good tips here. |
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