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The Doctor
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lol I love how ironic this thread is  |
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magnum45
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Chief I agree with everything in your post 100% until you do the edit.
Are women really a hobby? Is that a healthy way to approach another human being?
I understand your compansion and love for another women, but do you need to LOVE all women in order to fall in love with one. I think that looking at ALL women with extreme love is objectifying. Each women is different. In our society it's important to treat them as individuals not as objects. The swimmer is in LOVE with an action, and not a person. |
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ShadowSketched
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| Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 2:34 am Post subject: |
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| magnum45 wrote: | Chief I agree with everything in your post 100% until you do the edit.
Are women really a hobby? Is that a healthy way to approach another human being?
I understand your compansion and love for another women, but do you need to LOVE all women in order to fall in love with one. I think that looking at ALL women with extreme love is objectifying. Each women is different. In our society it's important to treat them as individuals not as objects. The swimmer is in LOVE with an action, and not a person. |
I read somewhere that love is not an emotion but a desire to give or receive attention. Right now I think your definition of love is different than Chief's. Sure, you can admire women for everything that makes them womanly, but you love women for what makes them different.
Idiosyncrasies are the key. |
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David~
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| Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with about 99.9% of everything said in this thread.
We should not want to pick up for any other purpose than a genuine love for women.
We should not be in this to hit some master pick up artist or hit a claim to fame.
Which is why I dislike the concept of a pick up artist in general.
We should all ask ourselves before we fuck a girl, are we doing it for the number? or for the pure joy in sharing something with a woman.
I use to experiment with the zen buddhist concepts about killing the ego over the summer.
In the end, there needs to be a balance, between the super-ego (the parent) and the ego. That is the .1% disagreement that I have for this thread.
Because it does take a level of self-delusional confidence to live the fast paced lifestyle of fucking like a rockstar.
But it does take humility to sit the fuck down and learn and recognize errors in your life/gamestyle. |
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David~
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| Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 10:23 pm Post subject: |
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| The Doctor wrote: | | lol I love how ironic this thread is |
But yeah, this thread is entirely ego based in the sense that we are not egotistical.
Nice call Doc lol. |
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trixsta
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| Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 2:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Just thought I'd bump this thread as I don't think everyone has read it. |
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mamalulu
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For the guy who says he hates women because they think can control sex or w/e; It's normal for women to do that it's a simple principle of offer/demand.. they get so much demand so they can afford to do that and you would probably do the same if you were in their shoes.
I used to be jealous of women because sex seemed so easy for them until I realized it was just easy because they were young and beautiful. We both know when they get older it's another story. For them it's downhill from age 18 but for us it's uphill from age 14 or around that; you can only get better with time!! I love women but I prefer being a man ;-P |
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