I haven't taken anything you said as confrontational. That being said:
But I don't want to go just talk to girls, even if it was successful that doesn't sound like my idea of a good time. Perhaps I am in the wrong place as I don't particularly want to be a PUA, I would rather just develop my social skills and be someone that more people want around.
I don't want to be a PUA either. I often don't feel comfortable on this website, since the goals here are very different than my own -- you'll never seeing me answer questions geared towards a PUA. I only respond to certain types of posts. Luckily I learned how to do what you describe above naturally. That brings up the issue at hand, though.
You know how people become naturals? Years of a lot of experience. Think of it, they are in K-12 and then sometimes college with females on a daily basis. At any other stage of your life, you'l never really be in *that* type of dynamic. So how do you suppose that you're going to get that much experience by not changing the way you go about things? I don't think I've yet seen one realistic example of someone doing the "I'm going natural!" route on this forum succeeding. Generally they disappear, come back, and realize they wasted their time.
People get too focused on natural, structured, canned, normal, abnormal, blah blah. At this point, there is only practice learning the "rules" to socializing that you were unfortunate not to learn growing up. And that takes mass exposure in lots of various settings with lots of people and females. And I judge this based on my knowledge of learning a skill, therapy given to those who want to improve, and the countless users trying countless methods over my years here.