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Chief
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 Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 7:33 am Post subject: |
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| Luky wrote: | | But new questions started to arise... Should I use this experience to revise my approach? I mean, I don't think I did anything wrong... it's not like I can make her turn to the "dark-side" and love cock... I'm not sure what to do with this "fuck-up" to be honest. |
You CAN turn her to the cock-side. What is your approach? If there isn't too much sexualization involved in it, yes, you may want to revise it.
| Luky wrote: | | Is "stalking" women on Facebook and other social networking sites worthwhile to do a background check? |
No.
| Luky wrote: | | And for a bonus bogus question, is it even possible to convert her? I'm just curious because she's YOUNG and I don't take her as a legit lesbian. Not that I'm going to pursue her anymore, but if I find myself in a similar situation I want the challenge of turning the tables around when I get better at this stuff! |
Yes. A man's sexuality is categorical, but a woman's sexuality is based on an indefinite continuum.
Check this out: [link] |
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Johnny B.
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| Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 11:04 am Post subject: |
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Hello Chief!
I have tried to search stuff related to winging but its pretty poor. I know the MM style but i was wondering if you would have any suggestion concerning books which are worth to read or stuff like that. I would love to get my hands deeper on that subject.
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Chief
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| Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 11:21 am Post subject: |
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| Johnny B. wrote: | Hello Chief!
I have tried to search stuff related to winging but its pretty poor. I know the MM style but i was wondering if you would have any suggestion concerning books which are worth to read or stuff like that. I would love to get my hands deeper on that subject.
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The main purpose of winging is to divide and conquer, and there is no "best" or "universal" system to do it. How you and your wingman will wing each other should be discussed and agreed upon beforehand (logistics should be planned out extensively with him, especially), or just follow the winging protocol that your local lair recommends.
I think that, if someone wrote a book about all the different ways to wing, it would just end up being a pointless and unhelpful piece of text like Thundercat's "Art of Approaching." |
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cobain23
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| Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:43 am Post subject: not sure where to post this |
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so i'll admit that this is a bit balsy but here it goes...... i am a 23 y/o afc w/ an extra challenge, i was born with a dissablity. my situation is quite mild and i am completely cogently capable with an above average IQ. in fact, the only way anyone would know i have issues is that i walk funny, w/ slightly bent knees and a noticeable limp.
i am having trouble battling the stigma with my situation and women seem quite surprised when i ask them out. i make friends no problem but they seemed shocked if i want something more.
my question is three fold:
1. do you think that this situation makes my goal impossible/ do pua tactics not apply because i walk funny?
2. how can i help women see past my situation and take me seriously?
3. do any of you know someone who has also faced challanges and has been successful with females?
keep in mind that i AM A NORMAL PERSON and am not looking for pity, so be completly honest whatever your response |
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RocksWithClass
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Hello Chief,
Lately I've trying to work with groups (on a pickup theory) and I need some techniques for building comfort with and within an entire group. Can you suggest anything.
-Vann |
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Chief
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| Posted: Yesterday at 5:26 pm Post subject: Re: not sure where to post this |
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| cobain23 wrote: | so i'll admit that this is a bit balsy but here it goes...... i am a 23 y/o afc w/ an extra challenge, i was born with a dissablity. my situation is quite mild and i am completely cogently capable with an above average IQ. in fact, the only way anyone would know i have issues is that i walk funny, w/ slightly bent knees and a noticeable limp.
i am having trouble battling the stigma with my situation and women seem quite surprised when i ask them out. i make friends no problem but they seemed shocked if i want something more.
my question is three fold:
1. do you think that this situation makes my goal impossible/ do pua tactics not apply because i walk funny?
2. how can i help women see past my situation and take me seriously?
3. do any of you know someone who has also faced challanges and has been successful with females?
keep in mind that i AM A NORMAL PERSON and am not looking for pity, so be completly honest whatever your response |
Your issue is both internal and external, but the external factors are not what you think they are.
The internal issue is that you have limiting beliefs. Basics. Change that.
The external issue is that you probably need more sexualization in your game. Use sexual state from the start. Check out my "Sexual Attraction Explained In-depth" sticky in the Mid-Game section of the forum. |
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Chief
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| RocksWithClass wrote: | Hello Chief,
Lately I've trying to work with groups (on a pickup theory) and I need some techniques for building comfort with and within an entire group. Can you suggest anything.
-Vann |
Mystery Method |
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Mister Boss
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| Posted: Yesterday at 7:15 pm Post subject: Day game |
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Hey Chief,
I'm getting better at day game approaches now and I'm starting to collect some numbers. However, I feel like a lot of these numbers are goners. I want to be more efficient with my numbers.
My question is two-fold:
1. What can I possibly do to reduce flaking (Girl not responding to initial text)?
2. If a girl doesn't respond to a simple initial text, should I consider this as a loss already and move on? (Sending another text or even calling to give it another shot is bad?)
Some ideas regarding the first question:
- No texting but calling?
- C&F texting a few minutes later after approaching?
- Call her immediately after getting her number, so she has my number too and know who I am (caller ID). I can also check if the number is real this way.
Thanks, |
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