Day 24: Division Lane Part 1
Welly my game is really starting to manifest it self. I did a lot of bold moves that I wouldn't've made before. And me and the two guys I was with had fun, well at least I did. I did 8 full blow interactions though I'll go into detail only about a few. So I have only a few more conversations till I reach my goal of 30 conversations/ interactions as I've mentioned previously.
We'll My story starts on a stormy spring night, a night to truly remember. I was a little late because a family member had prior arrangements with the vehicle. So I was stuck out in the burbs for a bit. I was a little upset at first, but then I convinced my host to be patient and wait for me, because I planned to get him a drink. He never asked for it come to think of it. So my host agreed to wait which was cool. I was a little nervous, this was my first time strolling out to the chi in quite awhile. I cruised down the express way listening to energetic music.
I got off the highway and merged knowing tha ttonight was going to be fun. I had to try and experiment. I knew I was going to make the most of the night. I met up with my Host whom I'd met from this site and his bro, then we set off to the Train station where the fun began.
When we were walking toward the train stations I attempted to open a few sets by saying hello. A few replied back, but most just kept walking. Finally we arrivated at the train station and my hosts nodded their heads toward a set that had just hopped onto the train. These women looked a little bit older, I can tell that they had just got off work and they continued their chatter.
I didn't make up any excuses, I just went and tried opened them. I said hello really loud and clearly about 4 or 5 times. The other woman on the further left talked louder over me
. I tried a few more times and still no reply so I left the sett and moved on. It was an awesome way to start out the night though. So I went back and chilled with my hosts feeling prepped and ready for the night. Once we hopped off the train the fun began.
Ana Set (Name Changed)
We headed down the road and stumbled across an open air bar. We went in ready and prepped. My host pointed to a three set and sort've nudged me. I admit I was a little reluctant haha. You gotta get used to approaching when your being pushed.
So I eased my way into the set and I remembered the things I had learned from a couple days ago with Dy. "Just remember that confidence, the fun you had, and your success," I told my self.
So I started off the conversation by saying "hi". I kissed each of their hands, my kisses were so wet
, I could feel them as I caressed each of their hands. Then we sort've exchanged professions and I told them I wanted to become a lawyer and move to New York. We talked and exchanged questions and I found out a lot about them. I noticed that my conversational and transitional skills have gotten quite good.
After awhile I found it appropriate to escalate so instead of standing I sat right next to the target. I continued conversing, but I noticed that she had got up. I then moved in and said, " I couldn't help but notice that you were the best one here." She replied "Why thank you." Her friends had actually left to the other end of the bar. And like a sucker haha I believed her little excuse about her not wanting to block up the bar for passers-by. I shouldn't known better, but tonight was more a lesson in interaction I told my self.
I noticed one positive constant throughout the night, my positive energy and conversational skills. I know this will get me far.
She was the first set of the night so it was no big deal for me. I moved on and looked for my hosts. As the night went on more adventures unraveled.
Blonde Kiss Attempt
I'm not sure which one came first me walking down the street to other bards or me coming to this bar, but hey I came to this bar. There I ran into my hosts, and one of them just said they got two k-closes. This motivated me to try and go in for a few kisses. I wanted to try out the 20 K-Challenge but I was too bogged down in a few interactions. I went for 4 k-closes and only really remember two.
At any rate, we came to this 2nd bar and I was still pumped from the first. So we went to the back after some short scanning and spotted a set. Again, with a little nudging from one of my hosts I got into the set, and again I broke up a 3 set.
I opened with hello of course, did the friendly name exchange and kicked off the convo. I asked if they were friends etc., and why they were here. She replied her friend's bf's b-day party. I replied "cool, where's you twos boy friends they need to get here fast?" "We don't have them," she said.
"Oh really," I replied. And from that point I remember trying to go in for a k-close. I went in about 20 times. I ten said, "c'mon how about a cheek kiss and after about 5 times I got one of those." Then I tried stepping it back up and said "c'mon one kiss for the road and I'll beat off."
After trying quite a few times I rolled out and went to another set which wasn't very far away.
Bar Stool Set
Right Next to the previous set I and opened my host had opened a new set. Nice looking woman sitting at the bar with her friend. My host was making it happen and attempting the k-close. He was a little aggressive, but blunt which I admired. She was curled up or whatever and I saw her friend scanning the bar and peering around.
She was isolated at that point, so I figured I'd approach since her friend was occupied by my host.
I walked up and said "you seemed preoccupied, why not talk to me." We have a brief conversation and I can't remember exactly but she ended up saying "I needed a drink." I ended up tugging on her a few times and after her repeating "I need a drink" 5 times, I figured it was time to move on.
After that we left the bar and went to another one within a few minutes of the last one.
Small Bar Set
It was the teeniest Smallest bar ever! It was cramped. But we entered there in order to chill and open a few more sets.
There my host opened up some set by saying "hey who are?!" And they replied and what not. I think originally the set was impressed by my hosts, but I forget what happened but one of the women turned from happy to pissed.
I found my self interjecting "don't mind my friends, my names Dave" and again I kissed each of the women’s' hands and they introduced me to themselves and their bf's. Once my hosts left they were talking a little bad about them. I found my self trying to avoid the topic altogether. I just responded "They're cool guys once you get to know."
They told me I had such energy, charisma, etc. Hehe, it was intoxicating hearing that for a bit. I then made a beginner’s mistake and ratted my self out about how I had never been kissed and this is my first time out and what not. Haha, I'll keep in mind not to do this again. But they were cool people.
One of the women ended up pointing out which of her friends was single. I could've moved further but I left after that and went onto a few more areas. After that I went back to the bar where I had my previous two sets and there I met another.