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Madals
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 Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:04 am Post subject: Ask Living Attractions |
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Today is a great day, Fin and myself (founders of Living Attractions) have decided to begin this thread.
Ask Living Attractions
Its that simple, ask us anything related to Pick up and either Fin or Myself will reply.
There are however a few rules to make this run smooth:
1) Please set out your questions in an organised manner. That means use paragraphs and correct grammar.
2) Summarise your questions at the end of your post. This makes it a lot easier for us to work out exactly what you want to know!
3) Please try to keep posts short and to the point. Avoid copy and pasting a whole IM conversation etc. A short back story is fine as long as its critical to the question but please keep it to the point.
4) Read the thread before posting to check your question hasn’t already been answered.
5) This is primarily for newbie questions; however we will answer advanced questions if there is a demand for them.
6) If it’s a specific method or sarging question please tell us about your preferred method and style of pick up and why you like it. That way we can tailor advice that will help you most.
Now without further chit chat, ask away! |
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Fin
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| Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:15 am Post subject: |
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EXAMPLE QUESTION.
Hey it's michael here! I'm 21, and I've had a pretty normal social life, just got onto this via the internet. Anyway I've read the "rules of the game" and mehow's group attraction manifesto. But I have a problem.
I keep getting AA, I've been doing this for about a month and every time I go out, (during the day mostly) I rarely approach more than 2 sets.
Same thing happens when transtitioning I get their, I open but then I eject even when it's good!
How can I get rid of this AA and Transitition fear?
Cheers |
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Harleystcool
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| Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:57 am Post subject: |
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| Hi i'm harley, i was wondering, if you tell a lie, is it true that your pants are actually on fire? or is that just a myth? |
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Madals
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| Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2009 12:11 pm Post subject: |
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| Harleystcool wrote: | | Hi i'm harley, i was wondering, if you tell a lie, is it true that your pants are actually on fire? or is that just a myth? |
Harley, would it be possible for you to explain how this relates to pick up or a situation you are in. |
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Klasik
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| I met a "friend" (we've known each other for a few years but hardly ever talk) at a speed dating event. I asked her whether her boyfriend knew about her going out and she smiled and said "shhhhh!" Is this a sign she's willing to cheat or is she just being an attention whore? |
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hamsterattack
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| Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2009 10:58 pm Post subject: question |
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Hey guys
I posted this as a new thread but no one has replied. Maybe you could help me.
Earlier today i went into a clothing store (for the sole purpose of buying clothes!), but my motives were immediately altered when, as i entered, a milfy employee gave me an unusually interested smile and asked how i was doing. i continued into the store after talking to her briefly, but within minutes she approached again me asking if i needed help. i lied and said i did in order to strike up conversation. i didnt exactly mack her, but i tried to flirt and i made sure to keep strong eye contact, etc. I felt like this attracted her pretty strongly (she complimented/touched my hair, asked my name...). nonetheless, for lack of experience (especially with older women - im 18, she looked about 40) i remained rather withdrawn. additionally, she mentioned that she has a daughter around my age which kind of intimidated me. to my surprise, however, when i left the store, she told me to take her card, to call her anytime if i had any questions, and that she wanted to see me back soon.
I do hope to return to the store, but Im unsure about how to handle her. I mean, what can i even do with a woman so much older as far as going out? since im on campus i dont even have my car! If you have advice on this particular issue or milfs in general (they seem to like me more than girls my age!) id really appreciate some. |
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Madals
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 12:31 pm Post subject: Re: question |
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| Klasik wrote: | | I met a "friend" (we've known each other for a few years but hardly ever talk) at a speed dating event. I asked her whether her boyfriend knew about her going out and she smiled and said "shhhhh!" Is this a sign she's willing to cheat or is she just being an attention whore? |
I personally think you are trying to read too much into this alone. Do you know if she was with friends or anything?
As for her comment when you asked if her BF knew she was there - unless she said more things I would take her comment as just a playful fun comment, possibly a little flirty but nowhere near enough to draw opinions on her and her BF from.
Klasik, my suggestion to you if you are interested in this women is to keep a playful and lightly flirting conversation and slowly add in sexual escalation in the form of kino or innuendos. Once you start doing this you will easily be able to see how she reacts and make a much more informed decision as to how into you (or not into her BF) she is.
The important thing to remember in this sort of situation is that you shouldn't base your decision about what a women is thinking/feeling off one event or one thing she says. If your a Mystery method fan his 3IOI's rule is a good example, after you get 3 its fairly sure that its not something you have read wrong or something she isn't intentionally doing.
Hope that helps.
Madals
Hamsterattack, I am going to leave your post for Fin as he will give you a far better answer than I will since he has a lot of experience gaming older women. He should get back to you within the day. |
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Loso
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 2:49 pm Post subject: |
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what is the general rule about sarging at work???
Is it worth it in your opinion?
I recently had a bad experience where I either miss read the IOI's or she was playing too hard to get, anyway a friendship has since been demolished with our immediate friends being effected (picking sides essentially).
I've seen this new HB at work and was wondering if its worth the hassle tbh?? |
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hamsterattack
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 6:27 pm Post subject: |
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| Btw LA thanks for posting this topic I'm sure I'll be needing the help! |
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CaptainAwesome
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Here, try and help me with this.
I've been trying to game a few chicks in my chemistry class, but there is this really smarmy twattish dark haired kid who sits in the back like he's king of the world and he keeps trying to Amog me, now obviously I make him look like a complete fool on a regular basis but I'm running out of material, could you post some more stuff, thanks. |
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Fin
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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HAMMSTERATTACK:
First of all, younger women probably like you just as much, it's simply that older women are more confident in expressing their desires, surprisingly they can be very experitmental and impressivly self assured when it comes to flirting with people they like.
Call her up, agree to meet for something light, like a grab a drink, nothing to pressured, my guess is with the age difference she is looking for a one night stand.
Get her out with you, and escalate things, she'll be quite happy to go along with it seeing as she seems to have done alot of escalating so far  .
Really, this is the point where all I can say is, if you want it, GO DO IT! good luck man 
CAPTAIN AWESOME:
QUICK! I NEED A BAND AID!
I don't like handing out one liners, so I'll give you a check list instead.
I want you to think this over and see if you can get a answer for yourself.. if not then ask again.
The next time this happens, once it is over ask yourself this.
-What is his motive for being an AMOG?
- Is it affecting how you percieve yourself?
-Is it affecting the girls perception of you?
-Does it matter if he tries to be a dick?
-Is he stopping after being AMOGed back?
-Are you going to have to pacify him instead?
-How can you use his motive to pacify him?
EDIT: Incidently, you could try kicking him in the shins... or climbing stairs..... I hear their is an alpha male patrolling schools in england, he has particularly weak legs, not much is known apart from that, and he has an affinity for basketball.....................................
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Madals
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 10:43 pm Post subject: |
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| loso wrote: | hat is the general rule about sarging at work???
Is it worth it in your opinion?
I recently had a bad experience where I either miss read the IOI's or she was playing too hard to get, anyway a friendship has since been demolished with our immediate friends being effected (picking sides essentially).
I've seen this new HB at work and was wondering if its worth the hassle tbh?? |
Right, this is an interesting question with lots of different opinion on it.
I think the most important thing to keep in mind is what you risk messing up if things go bad. Being on good terms with work friends makes a big difference to a lot of your life. However, you will meet a lot of amazing women at work.
Ok so far i have dodged the question and there is a very good reason for that, there isn't a right or wrong answer and nobody but yourself can really judge if its worth it.
However, some things to keep in mind:
-Is she really worth risking your work enviroment and possibly job prospects
- Is she that special that she is different to any other women that isnt at your work
- imagine you get together, what would happen when you broke up
- Do you really know what you want with her, and does she want the same
Hope that helps, follow on questions welcome  |
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 11:20 pm Post subject: |
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| FIN thanks a lot for trhe advice and support. ill let you know what happens! |
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Loso
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| Posted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 11:16 am Post subject: |
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| Madals wrote: |
Right, this is an interesting question with lots of different opinion on it.
I think the most important thing to keep in mind is what you risk messing up if things go bad. Being on good terms with work friends makes a big difference to a lot of your life. However, you will meet a lot of amazing women at work.
Ok so far i have dodged the question and there is a very good reason for that, there isn't a right or wrong answer and nobody but yourself can really judge if its worth it.
However, some things to keep in mind:
-Is she really worth risking your work enviroment and possibly job prospects
- Is she that special that she is different to any other women that isnt at your work
- imagine you get together, what would happen when you broke up
- Do you really know what you want with her, and does she want the same
Hope that helps, follow on questions welcome |
Thanks dude,
the work place/enviroment is such a tricky one, so much forbidden fruit, sometimes I think F this, its only a part time job in retail, but as I've experienced things turn sour not only for you but those around you that are connected.
i'm just gonna keep it playful with this new chick at work today and save all my energy for tonight. |
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| Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 10:28 pm Post subject: |
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experts.. I need an advice..
Many a times I have seen one or two walking by alone making rounds of the dance floor.They are seriously alone. How to game such girls? |
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