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Prez
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 Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:00 pm Post subject: "You like it!" |
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I seem to keep running into a situation when I neg, the girl responds in a really similar way. (i think the term neg is often used incorrectly as an umbrella term, so tell me what the following is). I usually make a state along the lines of:
"Hey, no touch"
"Excuse Me!"
"Alright, thats enough/get off"
"your hair is all up in mah grill" etc etc
when I break kino, or she bumped into me etc.
they always respond:
"you (know you) like it"
"was I distracting you?"
I want a quick, fun response to whatever you want to call whats going on here. |
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caveman
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| Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 9:41 pm Post subject: Re: "You like it!" |
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| This shit isn't for free! (MM) |
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hbgmagnum
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| Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2007 1:30 am Post subject: Re: "You like it!" |
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| Prez wrote: | I seem to keep running into a situation when I neg, the girl responds in a really similar way. (i think the term neg is often used incorrectly as an umbrella term, so tell me what the following is). I usually make a state along the lines of:
"Hey, no touch"
"Excuse Me!"
"Alright, thats enough/get off"
"your hair is all up in mah grill" etc etc
when I break kino, or she bumped into me etc.
they always respond:
"you (know you) like it"
"was I distracting you?"
I want a quick, fun response to whatever you want to call whats going on here. |
statments like "hands off" "don't touch" are sorta like mini false disqualifiers the idea is she'll want what she can't have. Along those lines when a girl says "you like it" a neg would be if you say to her friends "does she always go around flattering herself like this?" change topic immediatley after saying something like that not giving her enough time to come back w/ something.
response to "was i distracting you" depending on the situation but i might just be like "Yeah actually you were" really cocky sounding. Idk I mean really they are little shit test so they dont really need to be responsed to at all if you dont want to, just look at her like she's really weird haha. |
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B Rob
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| Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2007 7:11 pm Post subject: |
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HB: Was I distracting you?
Me: *snap out of it like you were looking at something else across the room* I'm sorry what? |
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hbgmagnum
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| Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2007 8:09 pm Post subject: |
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| B Rob wrote: | HB: Was I distracting you?
Me: *snap out of it like you were looking at something else across the room* I'm sorry what? |
haha that hilarious |
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ezpz
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| B Rob wrote: | HB: Was I distracting you?
Me: *snap out of it like you were looking at something else across the room* I'm sorry what? |
haha thats pretty good |
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Legacy7
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 1:27 am Post subject: |
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| I would come back with "We've known each other for like 10 minutes and you already know me?" Turn to her friends and say, "Is she always this sure of herself?" |
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Prez
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 1:38 am Post subject: |
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| They sound good. But lets fast forward to comfort. I haven't only gotten this response before she's attracted to me. Later on, how should you respond? |
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anutharound
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 8:37 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | HB: Was I distracting you?
Me: *snap out of it like you were looking at something else across the room* I'm sorry what? |
that's just kind of assholeish.
She's flirting there's already chemistry there if she's doing this. There's no reason to neg her. Some teasing is alright though.
Her: You know you like it :p
Me: (indifferent) well... I guess I might, but you know you can only tempt me so much. Eventually I'll have to give in to my manly urges!
I totally do not understand negging her for touching you though. I mean you do like being touched right? Reward her for things you like, and punish for things you don't.
Girls want to "distract" you this is the girl seeking your validation. It makes her feel sexy to distract you in this way. A guy that can make a girl feel sexy is more likely to well.. have sex with her. |
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King.
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| Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 12:02 pm Post subject: |
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| B Rob wrote: | HB: Was I distracting you?
Me: *snap out of it like you were looking at something else across the room* I'm sorry what? |
haha that's perfect, as long as you smile |
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Valence
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| Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 11:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | "you (know you) like it" |
Don't tell me what I like. I like kittens and puppy dogs. Not you all up in my grill (Or on me, or violating my person space). Unless you by me a drink first (or bring me flowers, or do my homework) What ever the situation dictates.
| Quote: | | "was I distracting you?" |
Like getting a splinter in my eye ball. (said dramatically)
| Quote: | | Me: *snap out of it like you were looking at something else across the room* I'm sorry what? |
Never apologize.
| Quote: | | Me: (indifferent) well... I guess I might, but you know you can only tempt me so much. Eventually I'll have to give in to my manly urges! |
Never be uncertain
| Quote: | | I totally do not understand negging her for touching you though. I mean you do like being touched right? Reward her for things you like, and punish for things you don't. |
It is playful teasing. You are demonstrating that you are not like others and it takes more than her just touching you to win you over.
| Quote: | | Girls want to "distract" you this is the girl seeking your validation. It makes her feel sexy to distract you in this way. A guy that can make a girl feel sexy is more likely to well.. have sex with her. |
Making a girl feel sexy is not an attraction switch. Guys that buy girls drinks in a bar make them feel sexy.
Most of those guys do not 'have' sex with them.
Even in comfort, remain fun. Many people forget this and while trying to work to seduction, the girl losses attraction.... and then gets 'LJBF's. |
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anutharound
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| Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 1:16 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | Making a girl feel sexy is not an attraction switch. Guys that buy girls drinks in a bar make them feel sexy.
Most of those guys do not 'have' sex with them. |
I agree buying drinks make a girl feel sexy, but if buying a girl a drink is coming from a place of non neediness then its alright. The thing about buying girls drinks right of the bat is that it is undeserved interest. You can give interest for anything you want to a girl if she deserves it.
| Quote: | Me: (indifferent) well... I guess I might, but you know you can only tempt me so much. Eventually I'll have to give in to my manly urges!
Never be uncertain |
on this I tried that with multiple girls and it worked well for me, but I may try it in more certain next time this happens to me and see how it goes
| Quote: | I totally do not understand negging her for touching you though. I mean you do like being touched right? Reward her for things you like, and punish for things you don't.
It is playful teasing. You are demonstrating that you are not like others and it takes more than her just touching you to win you over. |
Sure it doesn't take just touching to win me over, but I still love it. Denying your deep feelings as a man is really not the best way to be a man now is it?
I think we just do things a little differently is valence. You have some valid points that I may incorporate, and are a smart guy. Me I am very honest about my intents. I don't hide my sexuality, I don't hide shit. It's all there for her to see from the very beginning. This encourages her to do the same, and I don't have to put up with half as much bullshit and games as other guys I've noticed. |
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| yeah bro, these aren't negs. |
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chrispb7
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-hands off the merchandise.
-stop treating me like a sex object |
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alaskanthunderfuck420
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| Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 3:20 am Post subject: |
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| chrispb7 wrote: | | -stop treating me like a sex object |
this one is money! haha big ups |
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