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Cndos
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Joined: 23 Sep 2007
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 Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 4:55 pm Post subject: Help Needed, Panic |
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Yo guys,
I'm already 4 months in the PUA community.
Never really did approach strange woman.
Cause i still had to work on my inner securities.
After that fixed.
My day began.
So I asked a girl for directions.
Tried it to take it somewhere but didn't work.
but after that i was in talkative state.
And saw a hot chick beside me.
So i started talking,
but after 3 lines i totally panic.
My ear became red of blushing and i was like wtf.
So i said: Okay, and closed my eyes for the rest of the trip hehe.
The whole day my right ear was blushing.
Just of panic.
Need help |
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joker_jack84
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Joined: 25 Mar 2008
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Location: Wisconsin
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Dude I am definitely no pro, but am some what of a natural by nature. Just put yourself in the mindset of you actually don't know where your going. If you can convince yourself you can convince others. I do that a lot at work and half the time my coworkers assist or do my stuff for me . Insert evil grin.
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Ox
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Joined: 08 Mar 2008
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I used to have problems with blushing, or I still have a little bit, but not as much and never when approaching.
I think the reason i don't blush as much anymore is because I have pretty good insight. I knew i was a "blusher" and I wasn't affraid of sharing this to people.
It sounds like an "I'm an alcoholic" tip. But the best way to cure this is to admit it, like you are doing now. I dont know if you ever talk about this to your friends or something, and I don't think you even have to have a conversation about it, just mention it inn a sentence, like it really don bother you that much.
Like
Friend: "How did it go with that girl last night?"
You: "It worked well, until I started blushing, I hate when I do that"
It's not something that is cured in a heart beat, but has worked for me.
And if you have the balls enough you can make this a topic if it happens when you talk to a girl. Just laugh at it. (Although I wouldn't be talking about it unless it shows)
I hope this post helps |
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