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Jbomb
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 Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 5:11 am Post subject: I need to Kiss close! |
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so I am going on a date with a girl I have been going after for a while. We are pretty comfortable together, and it is very easy for me to establish kino with her. I plan on kiss closing her this weekend on our date. Actually I need to. I know that I must establish plenty of kino before the kiss, but what I need help with is an idea for the close itself.
context. I am taking her to a ballet that my friend is in. sounds kinda cheesy but she is really excited about it for some reason. I think before that we are going to dinner somewhere, but I just don't know what technique to use for the close. So could you guys tell me of some good techniques? |
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Matt Bo Bat
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| Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 5:22 am Post subject: |
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Sounds like a great evening. seeing as you know this girl and are chasing her, I would say let it happen naturally. After the ballet wait for a moment when both your eyes meet. Trust me, you will know if you can go for the kiss or not. Plus you won't seem cheezy trying to use a routine to kiss close a girl you have just taken to dinner and a ballet lol. After a date like that, I think you'll have the situation on lock.
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Simpua
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If you are nervous I would give Juggler's chap-stick gimmick a try.
Sometime during the date, pull out chap-stick and pop the cap in an obvious manner. While putting it on say something along the lines of, "Not that I'm getting any ideas, but just in-case there's any smooching later."
If your date gets distant after that, then she's probably not interested. Otherwise you can be sure that it's ON! |
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blak000
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B.T., you don't need plenty of kino to kiss a girl; all you need is the right moment. You two already feel comfortable with each other, right? Once you feel confident that she's receptive, just give her "the look." Read her reactions... if she's sending you the go ahead, then pull the trigger. You'll have a very small window, so don't hesitate. And whatever you do, DON'T WIMP OUT.
It's not about routines or progression - it's all about your frame of mind. If you believe that she wants to kiss you, and act accordingly, she'll feel your energy - she'll comply. I've done plenty more with girls in a lot less time, and it was simply because I had a strong frame. If you start to get nervous, just remind yourself, "She wants this as much as I do. In fact, she's been waiting for it all night."
Whatever you do, don't wait until the end of the date to give her a kiss. That's a let-down to the girl - AFC stuff. It'll seem so scripted. Girls want excitement and spontaneity. |
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