Retreat at the last second

12345 · Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 5:30 pm Post subject: Retreat at the last second

I think I've pinpointed my biggest problem:

- If I approach a girl with too much confidence I appear arrogant, and either get rejected instantly, or as response I get too difficult shit tests (because they think I'm more confident than I am) which I can't find responses to quickly enough, and so I just end up in some embarrassing situation which I can't deal with. Both cases, more or less crash and burn.

- On the other hand, if I approach a girl without this surface, I don't dare proceed and usually have too much AA, and so begin an approach only to stop it at the last second, staring in a dumb way for a few seconds, then just chicken out and go away.

The problem is I can almost never find a mood where I am right between these two where things go right.

What am I doing wrong? Any inner game tips on how I can more easily get to the so rare perfect mood between these two extremes?

Kakara · Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 1:41 am Post subject:

the easiest thing i do to get over any shit test.. is just look at them and smile.
let them think what they want, ill continue doing what im doing.

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