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dorian
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 Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 5:22 pm Post subject: do you ever make a last call? |
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So, say this girl is giving you a damm hard time, ups and downs everywhere, you are basically sick of it.
Option 1. Eject elegantly. Option 2. Make a last call on her??
Could a last call be made succesfully, or, do PUA's make last calls? I mean, can you say verbally that you wanna know what the heck is going on, or if there is no decent making out you just go away?
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dorian
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| Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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Kurent
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If the girl is being a total bitch, or just plain cold. Neg her a lot.
If she is just not responding, go the extra 10% say "I eat shits like you for breakfast" or something. Call her out on being rude. By pushing your limits, you improve faster. |
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spiderman1
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PUAs dont make a last call dude, they say, im a fucken PUA and go find another girl. stop worrying about this girl man, dont even think about her, and you;ll be surprised. she;ll prob call you up in a few days. if not she wasnt worth it
my two cents
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Rapture7
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| Well put Spiderman. |
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Max
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why I don't like to date strippers
Hadn't seen her in 3 months, sent her a text that said, "So do you miss me yet"... I get a text back saying "I'm pregnant and getting married a lot has changed" and then I get angry phone calls from the fiance for an hour.
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rain3131
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as long as you dont show hard feelings.. freeze her out. i had a flaky girl who gave me ups n downs for a while but did show a lot of interest. i was sick of it and froze her. 4 days she started texting me. i still wasnt satisfied,m she wasnt totally complying so i ended up freezeing her again adn forgetting about her. 5 more days i think she started flirting and ended up calling me that weekend. in the long run i figured out she really wanted me bad after making myself unavailable.
its all about setting the right frame tho, she needs to know you wont lose sleep over her and are very happy with ur life right now. if she starts flirting again do a compliance test. if she complies but still is flaky, then i would ask her what her deal is in a non AFC sort of way. just let her know youre not playing games and wont wait around for her.
cuz if you dont, this cycle may just continue, on n off, on n off with no end. ive never tried to "eject elegantly" like u said so i dont know how that would work. but i did the ultimatuum and it worked. thats my 2cents, im no expert.
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meggisonj
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The whole idea of this PUA bullsh!t is that the woman wants to be told what to do, with out ever knowing it. "need" you approval on everything. I say you never know when you want her back. So I really just keep her under control than be controlled so her work doesn't suffer or any of that crap.
You never know how much of an impression you have left on someone until you leave then you get random calls late night wishing you were there.
you are in control and she is only truly without you in her life when she has you approval. Start talking like you always do in person be the man! and complement her way too much so she feels the power and approval of you and give very passive body language, and dump her. |
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Head First
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| spiderman1 wrote: | PUAs dont make a last call dude, they say, im a fucken PUA and go find another girl. stop worrying about this girl man, dont even think about her, and you;ll be surprised. she;ll prob call you up in a few days. if not she wasnt worth it
my two cents
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Well put.. freeze her out for a bit thats your only choice at this point |
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new2pua
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| i don't quite get wut the last call thing means. from the title, I thought it was something alchohol related haha |
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Stealth7
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| Posted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Freeze her out! If she's being hard with you show her that you could give a rat's ass whether or not she likes u or not. Tell her, "I'm gonna go now but let me know when you decide." and walk away chat with friends or whatever. She'll be like, "WTF?" She'll come back and say, "I was just playing!" Tell her that she has to earn it up to you. If she says okay and how is that? Tell her to come here and show me. This should help things out! |
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Chief
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| Stop breaking forum rule # 1 |
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