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Green_Eyes
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 Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 1:16 am Post subject: Flaking Girls |
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Ok need some help on this. But this weekend its my roommates 21st birthday, so were going out and partying. The thing is that this pass week a girl that ive hooked up with before text me out of no where saying,"stranger". I acted like i dont know who it is and i deleted her number. So later i tell her i know who it is and neg her twice to establish that im the Alpha and that im in control. She asks why i dont call her anymore and i say im just busy. To make things short so i set up a date, talking about my roommates 21st. I tell her this weekend that were going out and she is coming out with me. She agrees. The problem is there is three days from me to choose from for her to come out with me. Thursday,Friday,Saturday. Thursday out the question i got work in the morning. Friday drink specials, and the day i want but she said on facebook that she is going to a party that day. Saturday no specials at the places we were going to. The thing is that I want to sound like the AMOG, but im not planning what were going to do because its my roommates birthday, so i cant just set up plans then have something go wrong. So i call her and tell her that friday is the best day for her to come out with us. She says ok, and i ask so ill see you friday, and she says that she will call me. My plan is that if she doesnt call then im not going to set up another date because i want it to feel like she blew her chance to get back with me.
What is yall take on the situation on wheteher to set up a second date if she flakes on me or does not call. |
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KingMidas
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Go sarging tonight, and go sarging tomorrow too. Then it doesn't matter if things fall through with this girl. If she calls, tell her where you're at and that you want to see her (if you really do).
You know the old saying, "a bird in hand is worth two in the bush." That saying does not apply to a PUA. |
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k-loc
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| I like KingMidas' theory; just keep sarging on those supposed date nights. If you virtually stay at home waiting for her call and she flakes nor call, you would've waisted sargable nights. So go out. She calls, great(for her). She doesnt call, its cool 'cause you would've been out sarging anyway. |
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Xargon
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| I you EVER make plans with a girl over the phone, and she says she is going to call you one more time before that date, BEWARE! It's a high probability of a flake. My standard procedure for this is to call her out on it (but have fun doing it), send her a cocky text before the date ("i hope me being on your mind hasn't been too much of a distraction. we're still on for tomorrow, right" [note lack of punctuation]), and set up another date that same evening so you just don't care. |
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Soloman5000
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| Xargon wrote: | | I you EVER make plans with a girl over the phone, and she says she is going to call you one more time before that date, BEWARE! It's a high probability of a flake. My standard procedure for this is to call her out on it (but have fun doing it), send her a cocky text before the date ("i hope me being on your mind hasn't been too much of a distraction. we're still on for tomorrow, right" [note lack of punctuation]), and set up another date that same evening so you just don't care. |
Good advice. |
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Apollyon
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| If she doesn't call, next time she calls tell her that you just want to be friends. |
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unkmark
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| Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 1:14 am Post subject: |
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| just explain the situation |
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G$
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| Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 4:38 am Post subject: Eazy |
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 sounds simple or strange but what you do is ... dun dun dun ... flake first ... i did this and it works lol ...
set the date 2days ahead say its monday now and set 1 for wensday. Dont communicate with her the day before the date just send a txt msg about how u were thinkin of her or something. Than dont contact her at all on the day of the date ... ur basically standing her up with out actually standig her up. 2hrs to 3hrs before the date txt her or call her than tell her u wont be able to make it. give any or no reason at all but dont set a new date, just let her know ...
so next time u actually want to set up the date she'll be more the willing to go ... lol and u can flake again ... |
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