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Flare
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 Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 10:12 pm Post subject: stuttering |
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So i now realized that i dont have Approach Anxiety but i am scared to talk to someone i dont know because i stutter. I stutter with friends, family, teachers and even more when im meeting some one new...
Theres no possible way to get rid of this. I have tried speech therapy, and NLP self hypnosis which did absolutly nothing!!!
and its not that i am nervous or anything. Its just i have a Stuttering problem.
i hope one day i can meet some one who can actually hypnotising me into Forgetting i stutter, and hopefully that will work.
The only time i dont stutter, is when i am drunk. lol
so just wondering, anyone know anyway i can OVERCOME my stuttering?
i cannot PU until is top becuase it is just way to embarasing!
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hbgmagnum
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| Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 11:46 pm Post subject: |
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| I have a friend with a pretty bad stutter, he gets plenty of girls cuz he's a pretty funny guy. Make up for it with confidence and as long as you still can be witty and funny I think you'll be golden. |
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Bedrock
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| Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 7:41 am Post subject: |
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Yeah just try to laugh it off. Have tons of confidence to back it up and you should be fine.
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slyder2412
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Yeah i've been stuttering since i was 4.
It's very hard to think beyond "if only i didn't stutter ..i'd be much more successful." And feel contempt and embarressment.
I don't think there's an answer for guys like us beyond thinking that everything happens for a reason...so we must have more confidence and balls then everyone else. |
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The Wild One
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 4:11 am Post subject: |
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| Yeah just manage this the best you can. Highlight the good things about yourself. |
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caveman
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 9:33 pm Post subject: |
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Or just stay drunk.  |
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midisle
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 3:08 am Post subject: |
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| I stutter a lot too. I find only on certain words though. I can't say the word older for some reason. I just substitute it for the word ahead.... My brother is 2 years ahead of me. I dunno i find saying things in a different way or sentance that still get the same message across works. |
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nuked
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| Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:23 am Post subject: |
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| Well, I don't know if this is your case of stuttering but I stuttered throughout high school due to how fast I would talk. If this is the case slow down your speech. I know this is a reason for a lot of people who stutter, but if its not, but if I'm wrong then go along with what everyone else said and do the best you can. |
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