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kingafc11
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 Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 12:22 am Post subject: attrraction ...comfort...then... |
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so i posted last week about a hb 7 giving me her number after we talked for 4 hrs. this week we went to a bar with some friends and got tipsy while watching football. she asked me to dance and i declined saying i dont know how. this is where i really become a full fledged afc again.
we (hb7, hb7 #2 , guy friend) went to my place drank some more, ate and talked. hb7 #2 pulls me aside says,"i saw you looking at my friend. she likes you. you should pull her away from guy friend hes really trying to get with her but she doesnt like him.
by about 3 she asks me to go outside with her again and we talk. i see shes cold, give her my jacket and pull her close. we go in after an hour and guy friend says he wants to leave. he leaves and she stays for another hour until hb7 #2 says she wants to go home.
basically i know im past attraction and am probably somewhere in comfort.
was wondering where exactly i am and what i should be doing next. |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 1:37 am Post subject: |
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| You're in I'm guessing C2. At this point you should be kino escalating so you don't end up in the "Friend Zone" and you are showing your interest. Hope that helps. |
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kingafc11
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| Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 2:45 am Post subject: |
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| i havent. thats my main problem but she has. only kino i intiated was giving her my jacket then hugging her from behind |
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| Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 5:52 am Post subject: |
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| kingafc11 wrote: | | i havent. thats my main problem but she has. only kino i intiated was giving her my jacket then hugging her from behind |
Thats fine man, just move it up from there...
I'm a "touchy guy" kino first
Then playfull kino
Then more romantic kino (hand holding, hugging from behind, arm around, etc...)
Kissing
Foreplay
Sex
Thats kind of the kino "levels" if you will. Sometimes it's appropriate to use lesser kino levels then the highest you have gotten to, in order to build more comfort.
So it sounds to me like your at "level 3" which should leave the first 3 levels available to you for building comfort... while you work your way towards kissing next. |
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