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TheGreatWhiteHope
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 Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 4:40 pm Post subject: textin. did i do the right thing? |
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So that girl from my high school get together (Girl I havent spoken to in months thread, actually i didnt even sarge her, i just said hey and made some small talk, i spent more time with this HB 8.5-9) anyway she texted me happy thanksgiving, you kno one of those bullshit generic comments, i didnt recognize the number and asked who it was, turns out it was her, so then we had a mini text conversation, and all of a sudden she got mad distant givin me 3 word answers to things tryin to sound mad cool (think of Jerry from seinfield whenever anyone told him a story or a problem he really didnt care about) this started to piss me off so i just stopped talkin to her
personally i thought that i did the right thing because im not rewarding her bad behavior, but at the same time im a little worried that we're not gonna talk for a while, like i had to keep things going, but im sticking to my guns. What do you all think? Did i make the right decision? |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 6:13 pm Post subject: Right Move |
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You made the right move by give an IOD to her IOD. Wait a few days and then re-initiate the game.
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Marco Polo
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| Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 7:19 pm Post subject: |
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| You did the right thing. I would also never contact her again. Who is she? One of thousands of females surrounding you. Who do you try to be? Pick up artist! If she blew you off, she f*cked up, its her loss. Just go on with your life! |
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TheGreatWhiteHope
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| So yea today she texted me asking me where the get together was, and she came out, but its w.e, she;s nothin special, big things poppin little things stoppin you kno? Where would i go from here tho? |
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alex_hitchens
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 2:09 am Post subject: |
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hey man,
first up good move, in regard to you being scared you wouldnt have spoken in a while: there is a principle in pick up that in order to get the girl, you have to be willing to lose her. for sure it sux to stop the textin, but you have to send her the message that her one 3 word answers arnt good enough, and she will have to try harder if she wants your attention.
in terms of what to do know, if you gonna see her, then you gotta play standard game on her, you know talk to her friends, dont pay her much attention, throw some negs, use kino, run some routines etc etc
good luck |
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FIKSHEN
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once I was getting a lot of IODs on text, like 1 word answers and shit.
Then I come out with the text "Are you classy?" And that was it. I got a feeling this is a qualification issue. Then you respond "awesome  I love classy people, they're just so much more down to earth. But you're still a dork." Or some variation of takeway. If she ignores. Game over, you have no attraction. |
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