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xvxv3ndetta
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 Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 8:56 pm Post subject: I blank out after openers... what am I suppose to do?? |
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Alright, so what's a man suppose t odo after openers? I dont have a thousand interesting things to talk about and I want to keep the momentum up. What am i suppose to do? Rather, does anyone here have any tips/suggestions/etc... anything that can help me in this area?
I want to ATTRACT here not be A FRIEND to her. I can do the whole friend thing but whats that thing that PUA's do that I'm not doin? |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 9:25 pm Post subject: |
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| After opening and obtaining the interest of the group, then I simply ask, "How do you all know each other?" This opens them up for conversations and stories. If someone states he's a boyfriend of one of the ladies, for fun I'll ask her "is this true?" Then you can make fluff talk about friends etc. Start telling stories about yourself and or do a routine. There are a lot of posts on here about ideas for DHV stories and routines to use. |
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FreeLife
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| Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 9:44 pm Post subject: Don't worry too much about transition |
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Once you feel that there really isn't more to discuss about your opener you can simply say "get this" and go into a routine.
You can get away with no transition - girls don't really care that much about it.
You could also go like this: "I just noticed something cool about the two of you. You have very similar smile/posture/whatever. Are you guys good friends?" They will most likely respond with a yes, since they are together. Otherwise just say that you get the vibe that they could become great friends. Either way jump into the best friends test: "A friend of my learned me this test to determine whether people are good friends. Gotta warn you though - its accurate like 99% of the time." Then do the best friends test.
Generally a lot of guys think to much of transition. I was watching some footage with mPUA Mehow the other day and he opens like this:
Mehow: "Wohoooo!!!"
A HB from the set: "well, hi!"
Mehow: "I totally know that smile (addressing the girl who said high, and thereby rewarding good behavior)... You can go like from good to evil in no time!"
HB: haha
Mehow: "Ok just for fun lets play a game. " Then he goes into a routine.
Hope I could help |
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xvxv3ndetta
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| Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 10:06 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks ya. if theres anymore anyone got to offer, i'd appreciate it.
Honestly, I don't blank out after openers. Im just thinking i might so i wanted to get you guy's opinion on it.
I just started this and I havent gone out yet. Been buzy ya know what I mean?
But thanks to ya, I have more of an idea how to stay loose.
Still looking for more ideas or what not. |
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