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KaraokeStar
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 Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 7:54 pm Post subject: Just kiss/numberclosed with a roller girl.help Im overmyhead |
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I’m very new at this and fear that I may already be in over my head…
I just finished reading ‘The Layguide’ and decided to try some of the techniques I learned in this great book at a local roller derby bout, ‘The Turkey Shoot’.
Believing that I had little or no chance of actual success, I began chatting with a Jammer (star roller girl) and her friend. I used a couple of negs and, just for fun, tried to concentrate primarily on her friend and not her, asking her friend what she thought of the bout and her performance in it.
These techniques worked better than I could possibly have dreamed and, after receiving several indicators of interest (she began touching me to get my interest…) I managed to number and kiss close with her…
Now I have her number and have no idea what to do… I have no idea what kind of date to take this girl on and no idea how to call her and arrange such a date.
As a roller girl, she’s a star athlete, she’s one of the most gorgeous girls I’ve ever meet, she has a great personality, and she’s really comfortable with her body (to wear those uniforms, you’d have to be)…
Can any of you help me with the next step, namely, how to call her, what to say, and where to take her (I live on the NJ side of the NJ/NY border)??? |
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Fire
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hmm keep it simple bro, I like to take a first date like this one out for coffee and light convo, something that works really well for me is going to a chapters, you grab a starbucks then take her to the astrology section, there you can find something that ahs all the birthdays listed and tells you about their personality (it's actually surpriseingly acurate). Find out her birthday give her yours and read up on each other. While your reading you can neg her and joke around about what you've found. After that it's upto you wheather to continue the date or make another one.
Good luck bro let me know how it pans out! |
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jmark
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Fires suggestion sounds pretty solid. Definitely keep it low key. Call her and tell her you're planning on going to some book store or coffee shop and thought she might want to come along. Try to pick something non-chain type store such as Borders or Starbucks and act real chill about it. Like you are a regular there. I like to take girls to a poetry slam or indy musician or something. Even if they suck, tell her you like to give these people encoragement, etc.
You've read all the important starter books, so just remember to incorporate your four attractions into your stories and work on making them flow. Work in that you're the leader of your friends and what not and that you're preselected by women. Answer a text message from another girl in the middle of a dry spot in conversation. Make sure to work in that you're willing to emote. Talk about something you're passionate about and finally, the hardest one, display that you are a protector of family and friends. This can be worked in with the emoting part.
Also make sure you have you have your body language down. Read some of the threads in the forum about sitting, eye contact, walking, or gesturing like an alpha male. Watch a movie with a real alpha male in it before you go out. I suggest Collateral (Tom Cruise). Listen to some pump up music. You know the game plan already you just have to know you're the shit. |
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minijag
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Sound's like you might be nervous on your first date. I suggest an 30 minute jog/sprint before your date. So you won't be so fidgety/nervous during it. Seriously if you feel that nervous then do this, even if you don't really run or jog or aren't in that great of shape. All you are wanting to do is get your body tired.
So Jog for 30 minutes, go home take a shower 30 minute before your date and then go.
If you aren't in shape it is best to sprint, Sprint as far as you can, stop walk for a bit, sprint again when you're ready.
This will help your body language |
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