Help

aFTeRm4Th · Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 9:26 pm Post subject: Help

Alright so i'm pretty new to this stuff... but been using some of the stratigies on this site and I got this one girl into bed, we were kissing and fooling around... then later on in the night I was texting her and talkin and she kept bringin up that she liked other guys and all that and she didn't "like me like that."

How would you guys play this situation

JSmooth · Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 10:54 pm Post subject: Need more Info

Need more information. You said you guys were in bed kissing and fooling around. Sounds like you were doing well! You didn't F-Close so was there some Last Minute Resistance (LMR) you couldn't get around or what happened. What happened there?

You mentioned you were texting to her and then she through the "I don't like you like that." Which is her trying to either justify what happened, because of social pressure every girl feels. Or you are on a one way street to the Let's just be friends zone (LJBF). Let us know what happened and we'll help out.

J SMOOTH

Rye Lee · Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 11:47 pm Post subject:

Yeah, we need more info. Just don't make an essay. Wink

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Welcome tmayhew.

Now, let us have more info, lol. Just the key stuff though, as Rye pointed out, lol.

chaoticsouls · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 12:52 am Post subject:

Yeah need more information, but it sounds like to me she was just wanting some fun for one night.

nick22 · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 1:39 am Post subject:

pretty much act as though its not a big deal to you. and say that ur not even interested to her in that way. say that she doesnt have the things u look for in a girl. she will get self-consious and be wondering "hey wats wrong with me". thats wat i would do.

aFTeRm4Th · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 3:22 pm Post subject:

Alright so I was talking to here earlier in the night and seeing if she wanted to party, but she said she had homework and other stuff to do. Then later on I told her I was done chasing her and crap and put the ball in her court. After this she said she wanted to come out and party with me.

We went to the party and kissed for a while, then went back to my place did the same and fooled around in my bed, no f-close (sex?). Was kinda hammered so don't exactly remember. But took her home and texted her later in the night, don't remember what I was saying but her texts basically the text seriese goes like this:

Before this night even happened she had said she was interested in another guy. Then after the night she had mentioned she was interested in these two guys, and didn't like me like that. I responded by tellin her its cool cause last night didn't mean anything and i'll let her chase those other guys. So it kinda seems like she was playing games, not really sure... but ya what now

JSmooth · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 3:41 pm Post subject: Okay

Thanks for posting the extra information. This helps a lot. Sounds like your take away worked getting her hanging out with you. Even though you ended up in bed and fooling around, her comments afterwords suggest you didn't spend enough time in A3 to C2. Maybe you didn't give enough IOI's when she did. You definately gave her some IOD's when she gave you some. Could have overdone it perhaps. It's hard to isolate it without knowing specifics.

Basic Advise, try and be more concious spending time building comfort. It's where the game is played. Most of the time when you don't get to F-Close and just kiss,etc it's because the game was lost during comfort phase. For example, I had to battle through a lot of LMR last night because I didn't spend enough time in C1-C3.
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aFTeRm4Th · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 3:46 pm Post subject:

And also I think I vagely remember talking about how she was a virgin, so when we were in bed messing around I kinda called it off and told her she needs to think about it....

Valence · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 6:16 pm Post subject:

All I needed to read was this

Rye Lee · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 9:32 pm Post subject:

Valence is right about you being too available, so learn from it and don't keep so much contact. Let girls know that you have better things to do that pursue them, so they need to impress you, otherwise they are wasting your time (this is something you show with your attitude and several comments over time, not something you can say all at once), it needs to be subtle, but noticed.

Don't drink and run game. Simple as that, soon as you drink more than one or two, you lose your ability to think clearly as you pointed out yourself, you can't recall what you've done or said, so now you're at a dissadvantage and you also get whiskey dick and can't f-close (yes sex = fuck-close).

Kinda sounds like she might have been having a bit of fun, but wasn't as impressed by what you've got as she is by what those other guys have, either that, or she's trying to make you jealous, in which case, you need to do a take-away with your affection and neg more.

If she does actually like those other guys better, then she may be trying to use you as pre-selection (yes girls know about this, just not consciously). So, if that's the case, then you can either drop her, or try to outgame them.

aFTeRm4Th · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 10:35 pm Post subject:

Ya with the other guys... originally it was just one, then the day after she said two so I think she might be bluffing.... also she said the same stuff before we had hooked up. What would you suggest as far a using neg's

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Personally tmayhew, in my opinion the best thing you can do with this girl is not only back off of her, but more importantly game other girls and get other girls to be hanging around you, especially in some way that this girl will find out.

Whether she's bluffing with those other guys or using you as social proof for the other guys, either way, you will benefit from gaming other girls. And, you can use the social proof you have from this girl to help you game other girls.

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