A opener that works 99% of the time

Shaft

Well this is a two parter. The first is my approach opener. If you spot a target in the bar approach them right away and say. Out of all the girls in this bar you are the most beautiful (girls love that word) and I was wondering if I might be able to dance with you. Or you can alter it and add some time restrictions. My friends are leaving but before I leave I just wanted to say you are the most beautiful women in this bar and then start to back away looking for a reaction. Most of the time for me it works and they stop me. I had one time where it didn't work but hey you can't win them all.

Also I found that being out right honest with a woman seems to work. Take this one for an example. This is one of those seductive drunk moments I get were I pull a miracle out of my rear end. I was dancing with this girl at Bar Wild just hammered on Jagger Bombs and I pulled her in close so she could hear. I said you know I am really drunk and would like to take you home right now and have the wildest sex with you (I pause for a brief moment) but I would rather get your number right now and take you out sometime when I am not so drunk so I can get to know you better and see where it goes from there. The girl just melted and she got that sparkle in her eye. I don't know if it was the blunt honesty or what but it did seem to work. I am thinking about trying that one out tonight when I go to Rum Jungle. I will keep you guys updated.

Ice · Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 4:36 am Post subject:

wow dude... its reaaaally hard for me to believe that the opener "you are the most beautiful bla bla bla" actually works.
Where I live all my friends that dont have a clue about PU skills are always aproaching girls with that line and crush and burn almost always, inclusive with not so hot girls, like 7 or 8.
From my opinion thats is a tipical AFC line, but as I never try it I cant say anything else.
Maybe when you say that opener you deliver it with a lot of confidence, but if you say that after saying that you wait for a reaction, that doesnt sound too confident, you are seeking approval.
I dont think that works, but is just my opinion, let see what the others post too.

ICE

Shaft · Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:59 pm Post subject:

Well I do try to say it with alot of confidence, but I do get your point with it being a common line the AFC would use. The thing is when I start to back away while shes thinking I tend not to care what she would say, or maybe I just have lucked out with the whole openner on some women. But then again we are all here to better ourselves and thats why I love feed back, so thank you Ice

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Arular · Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 7:07 pm Post subject:

its an interesting one, as on the front of it, it seems an ametuer line, the kinda thing in movies when the good guy finally plucks up the courage to tell the girl of his dreams what he thinks of her.... but i guess its a good last chance saloon line, as alot of women do simply like being told how good they look. in reply to situation where you were drunk, i guess its only certain girls that will work on, as some may get scared off by it....

Bouncer · Posted: Sat Sep 30, 2006 7:27 pm Post subject:

I think this opener proves that what you say doesn't matter as much as how you say it. Shaft said it perfectly. He didn't hesitate, didn't seek approval, wasn't expecting anything, and really didn't worry about the outcome. He just said it. I do agree with Arular that most women do like to complimented on how they look because they spend a lot of time and effort worrying about it. Now when we are talking about 10s, they already know that they are hot because guys constantly tell them that, so a compliment like that (even said the right way) wouldn't really be as effective as it would be to a 7 or 8. I do however like the second opener because it works so well when both people are drunk Smile

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Arular · Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 9:09 pm Post subject:

yes agreed... saying that to a 10 im sure will never get you anywhere... but to the 6 and 7's i think would go down well.

supertron · Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 8:58 pm Post subject:

I usually use an alternative to the first opener without the 'you're oh-so-beautiful part" and leaving the "I want to dance before I leave" part. it works Smile

the second opener is really good. if I somehow don't know what to say* just saying something true and honest makes it count I'd say about 85% of the time. it's not so bad Wink

*I'm fairly new to seduction and I've mostly been working on alpha male stuff not the techniques

Shaft · Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2006 4:16 pm Post subject:

Wow I completely forgot about those openners. Wow those were the days....

I.P. Freely · Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 4:56 pm Post subject: Addition

I think it would ve been less afc if u said: You re the SECOND best woman in this place.

what do u guys think? It makes her courious...

Jaxin · Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 8:34 pm Post subject:

I tried that once on a Greek HB9 at the greek fast food resturant.
But before I did that the day before I negged her so it went something like this:
Jaxin: wow I love your eyes!
HB:"thanks" *smiling*
Jaxin:are they contacts?
HB:"no their fake"
didn't make sense to me either.
The next day...
Jaxin:"wow your the second most attractive girl I've seen all day!
HB:"and yesterday I was the prettiest one right?"
Jaxin:"actually no I just said you had nice eyes"

jad87

Man LOL you are hitting on the girl with this opener.. You are making her uncomfortable hence giving her bad emotions...If you are approaching girls with this opener sincerely it might work on ugly ones..They want complements ..but on a hot girl it will never do..this is what all guys do and man using an AFC line makes u an ... Shocked

...Man if you wana hit on her like that well u should never talk about her looks and how beatuiful u r...When you complement the looks of a beautiful women (If u r approashing HBs)u should notice something unique about them....
LOL Razz

Shaft · Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 6:18 am Post subject:

I can't believe people are still posting on this openner

sarger · Posted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 6:16 am Post subject:

i done some direct approach in street before, works marvels but it scares the shit out of me when i do so. however club atmostsphere is my scene. i'm surprised it works. i might try it sometime soon.

SHAFT: just one thing thing how do u back away when doing approach-1, do u turn around and head turn over the shoulder as you walk away, or do u walk backwards slowly? in my experiance the chick is too shocked/unprepared to do anything.

Shaft · Posted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 8:32 pm Post subject:

Wow, thats a tough one, I haven't used that one in forever. Well from what I remember, I would just walk straight up to her and I believe I would do some light kino, a hand on the lower back. When I backed away, I think I just backed straight back or maybe backed away at a 45 degree angle while offering a big smile.

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