Loud Clubs - What to do?

Ermorden · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 7:27 pm Post subject: Loud Clubs - What to do?

I've never really enjoyed the Loud Club environment, but it tends to have the biggest selection of women as well as some of the hottest.

Its so annoying trying to approach women there and saying the same thing 3 times or having to ask What? over and over and then still not hearing what they are saying.

Conversations are based on short statements and always short answers and sometimes you are not even sure if you heard them or she heard you.

What do you do?

Ziggy · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 7:38 pm Post subject:

You avoid them!

Yea I really don't like loud clubs either. You can't get an actual conversation going unless you're able to isolate to a quiet patio or outside. My strength lies in building connections with girls, so I'm not the expert at this, but it seems to me that the only way to build attraction in that environment is through crazy social proof. Walk in with great clothes, great grooming, great body language, a pack of guys that are equally put together, or a pack of girls that are solid 8s or 9s. Then you go around and lord the club.

Or you can do Mehow game, which is about being obnoxiously socially alpha and tons of kino. But you have to be congruent with that style of game for it to work.

Ermorden · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 7:56 pm Post subject:

So what would you say are the best places to sarge at?

Ziggy · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 8:04 pm Post subject:

A more low key place where the club or event isn't the star of the evening.

xxIcexx · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 10:17 pm Post subject:

try bars or lounges because they still play music, but its not crazy like the club settings, but for clubs, you either have to be ridiculously good looking where you can isolate off of your looks, be a great dancer where you gain proof by dancing with girls around your target, then move into her because she will see you are good and having a good time, then she will want it, or you have to have a powerful voice and overpower the music

Rye Lee · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 11:10 pm Post subject:

USE THE SEARCH TOOL!

There are PLENTY of these topics already out there with lots of advice and people aren't gonna keep rehashing what we've already said.

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xfman · Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 2:12 am Post subject:

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Next time please use the search function Ermorden
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notreallyhere · Posted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 9:13 am Post subject:

What I dont like about clubs is a lot of chicks like to dance, that is why they are there! but I hate dancing!! So to pull them off of the dancefloor to chat is kind of hard to do!

k-loc · Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 3:34 pm Post subject:

I have a not- so revolutionary remedy for loud clubs. What I would do is to approach the set(or single) in a some what playful dancing way with a007 smile on my face. Not a lot said(verbally). In a case like this, I wouldnt opt for a verbal approach; more non-verbal via dancing.

Fusion · Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 4:00 pm Post subject:

nathan_asher · Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 11:43 am Post subject:

well im a big club person.
its honestly not that hard. and for those that dont like the club thing.... please... get over it and learnt to have fun. if you cant dance? fuck it, you go to the floor and dance anyway. i have a mate that cant dance a bit. but when he does, it looks funny as shit but you'll have a good time with it.

what i do is, i hang on the dancefloor and if i get some smiles or eye contact with a girl, then i just walk up and speak in there ear. easy. in there ear. from there i just talk for litterally a minute and then say im going to get a drink from the bar. and then TELL them.. yes, TELL them to join you. if they reffuse (rarely) then you say 'have a nice night' and walk.
once at the bar you can talk much easier and you have at least 5-10 min with them cos normally the line should be big. from there just take them to a quieter place and carry on where you left off.

easy right?

J.U.C.E. · Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 6:41 pm Post subject:

joe412 · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 5:17 am Post subject:

Also while your at the bar you can play a game to see you buys the drinks for example hot hands or one of my favoites is styles 5 lies game (where they have to tell five lies in a row to win).

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