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intron
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 Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 11:50 pm Post subject: Intelligence Gathering |
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A simple way I like to gather intelligence on girls is simply to go to a coffee shop or some such location, do homework or whatever, and passively listen in on a conversation a couple of girls are having. Girls gossip, and listening to them gossip can give you information on how girls think as well as conversation material you can use. For example, I overheard two girls (8s or 9s) at Starbucks yesterday and they reinforced the idea that paying for a girl when you go out is AFC. They were talking about some guy they knew (a friend) who was apparently really nice and always paid for everything anytime he went out with any girl. One of them actually said she thought he was gay for awhile, and that such behavior made him look like he was trying to impress the girls he was with. Obviously this confirms that there is a key difference between impressing a girl and making it obvious that you're trying to impress a girl.
Anyways, I thought this might be useful to those of you who are have trouble understanding how females think, and that the techniques of the PUA have a legitimate grounding with regard to female psychology. Passively listening in on conversations is a simple and effective way to 'gather intelligence.' |
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Alekc
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as far as the whole paying thing goes i always have the girls pay for the drinks. i think this is the best idea ever!! you still look like a man but never a chump. and great for negging and joking (ur so sexist i cant believe you expect me to pay!!)
(srry to whoever it was cause i know it was on this forum that i heard this idea)
as far as listening on conversations......umm seems kinda wierd to me i'd rather just talk to the girls who i keep as friends only types |
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undefined
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Not a bad idiea but I think it applies to a lot of other things aswell.
I do the same, listen and observe at school(not necceseraly on purpose, I do it passively), listen to girls chat about guys or other things when in the hallways I look at the natural alphas, n study their behaviours, there was this one kid, a really cool dude, easy to chill with,funny good looking, agressive at times.. A True natural alpha. I learned from him to b more aggressive towrds girls, not necesseraly verbaly or hardcore neggin, but aggressiv kino..
Agressive Kino:
I love it, when hugging a girl instead of a small simple hug, make it big! take control of her, maybe even spin her or playfully bash her against a locker/wall or w.e. There's more...
There's actualy a lot more that I've learned from this alpha male, ill write a thread on my learnings, specifically on agressive kino
But yeah passive listening and observing isn't a bad idea at all, I reccomend it too |
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slight
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Yeah man I know what you mean.
I rigged out the room I rent to a girl In my apartment block with cameras and sound. Ive set up a website to watch her, she is very beautiful, send me a pm for the link. |
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Killians
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| Alekc wrote: | as far as the whole paying thing goes i always have the girls pay for the drinks. i think this is the best idea ever!! you still look like a man but never a chump. and great for negging and joking (ur so sexist i cant believe you expect me to pay!!)
(srry to whoever it was cause i know it was on this forum that i heard this idea) |
It was on the "pickup artist"
I think the best thing to do it is to have her buy a round and then you pay for the next round. Therefore, you are not looking like a total pushover but you dont look like an ass either. |
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Tyler Dom
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 4:26 pm Post subject: FBI Surveillance vacancy--filled! |
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| intron wrote: | A simple way I like to gather intelligence on girls is simply to go to a coffee shop or some such location, do homework or whatever, and passively listen in on a conversation a couple of girls are having. Girls gossip, and listening to them gossip can give you information on how girls think as well as conversation material you can use. For example, I overheard two girls (8s or 9s) at Starbucks yesterday and they reinforced the idea that paying for a girl when you go out is AFC. They were talking about some guy they knew (a friend) who was apparently really nice and always paid for everything anytime he went out with any girl. One of them actually said she thought he was gay for awhile, and that such behavior made him look like he was trying to impress the girls he was with. Obviously this confirms that there is a key difference between impressing a girl and making it obvious that you're trying to impress a girl.
Anyways, I thought this might be useful to those of you who are have trouble understanding how females think, and that the techniques of the PUA have a legitimate grounding with regard to female psychology. Passively listening in on conversations is a simple and effective way to 'gather intelligence.' |
You should work for the FBI surveillance team.
I don't know what sane man would want to spend his day stalking girls, and learning about what shoes they just brought? Not me! You have just demonstrated lower value! I bet anyone on this forum girls don't stalk us and hear us talk about UFC, or cars etc? |
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erikose
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One of the best ways to gather intelligence is simply to read women's magazines...E.G. Cleo, Her World etc, etc...These articles post heaps and heaps about what women think about men's activities and behaviours and is pretty up-to-date as well.
1 thing I'm quite grateful for though is that none of the PUA material...from "The Game" to "Mystery Method" seems to have made it into its way into any of the female magazines. And that's a good thing cause it will be a disaster for us all if it does! |
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dronten
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I think you learn more by directly interacting with girls.. Listen to what they are telling you (and what they mean but don't say)! This way of "listening in" may lead to incorrect assumptions about girls... and if you happen to have a tendency towards over-generalizing (i.e "all girls are the same" etc) it can cement those beliefs so hard in you that you'll have a hard time getting rid of them later... Nooo, active is the way to go! Passive listening is for betas, or just for fun  A quick listen in just to find a good spontaneous opener can work wonders though.  |
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Z_dubya
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| erikose wrote: | One of the best ways to gather intelligence is simply to read women's magazines...E.G. Cleo, Her World etc, etc...These articles post heaps and heaps about what women think about men's activities and behaviours and is pretty up-to-date as well.
1 thing I'm quite grateful for though is that none of the PUA material...from "The Game" to "Mystery Method" seems to have made it into its way into any of the female magazines. And that's a good thing cause it will be a disaster for us all if it does! |
You need to stop fearing the exposure of the PUA lifestyle. It's already been exposed (VH1's the PUA, The Game, etc.), and the only difference it makes is on canned material (lines). So learn to make your own material, and use your own style with the foundations of what you've learned. If a girl can tell that you're experienced at PU, then she should feel safe that you know what you're doing and you won't make any awkward situations for her. Everything should feel natural like "it just happened."
So stay away from canned material and it's all good. |
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