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Imperial
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 Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:47 am Post subject: TIRED |
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| I'm so damn tired of being the stupid victim all the time. I have the potential to be a PUG. I could be just like Style, Mystery, Juggler whatever. I just keep thinking I'm not good enough. I Just need to get my head out of my ass. For everybody in this room, I want to let you guys know that I am ready to become the best there is. I am becoming a Pick-Up Guru and nobody is going to stop me. I'm ready. Are you guys with me? |
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jbeld
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:49 am Post subject: |
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| if you need our support you've already failed. |
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xxIcexx
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:55 am Post subject: |
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| go ahead and try...i really dont like your chances though |
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ninja
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:05 am Post subject: |
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| I'm pretty sure you're the only person in 'this room' you're referring to lol, but all it takes is a positive attitude and a few words, right? I suppose you're in the right direction. |
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SouthernCross
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:09 am Post subject: |
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| Believe and you can make it happen |
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Imperial
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:29 am Post subject: |
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| Fuck off ice you fucking wanna be pansy. And Jbeld I don't want shit from you ass bag. |
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Imperial
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:08 am Post subject: |
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| I dont understand some of the attitudes in here but that is just me. If you have a problem just tell me what it is. |
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Titan
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:43 am Post subject: |
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| Imperial wrote: | | Fuck off ice you fucking wanna be pansy. And Jbeld I don't want shit from you ass bag. |
Might as well leave the forums if you're going to keep-up that attitude. |
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SouthernCross
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Imperial the first step to becoming a Master is to not let people be the cause of any emotions you don't want to feel. Don't get angry Just ignore it.
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EasyLover
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 7:21 am Post subject: |
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| SouthernCross wrote: | | Imperial the first step to becoming a Master is to not let people be the cause of any emotions you don't want to feel. Don't get angry Just ignore it. |
Oh What a stud |
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Benchmark
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 11:11 am Post subject: |
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| Wow this has got a bit negative now hasn't it? Imperial do your thing mate don't let no-one try and bring you down! |
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BlackBull
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:08 pm Post subject: Re: TIRED |
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| Imperial wrote: | | I'm so damn tired of being the stupid victim all the time. I have the potential to be a PUG. I could be just like Style, Mystery, Juggler whatever. I just keep thinking I'm not good enough. I Just need to get my head out of my ass. For everybody in this room, I want to let you guys know that I am ready to become the best there is. I am becoming a Pick-Up Guru and nobody is going to stop me. I'm ready. Are you guys with me? |
(No harshness intended,but this needed to be said straight up.)
Ahem...
The road to becoming a guru is long,arduous,nervewracking,and sometimes,detrimental to the psyche.
Most of the gurus that you have read or heard about HAD HARDLY ANY HELP along the way,and spent weeks,months,and years figuring out what work.
It is extremely easy to say that one is as good as Juggler,Mystery,Style,Hypnotica,Piccus,David D,Xuma,etc... .Hell,about 100 other guys on here can claim that.
What seperates one who THINKS he's a guru and one who IS a guru,is simply the fact that an actual guru has been through everything on their own.
An actual guru has not sought approval for what they believed in,despite being mocked and ridiculed by other "gurus" who told us that flowers and gifts win a girl's heart.
An actual guru wouldn't need to post a topic clearly stating that the "guru" needs some reassurance and backup to continue or else buckle under the pressure.
You,unfortunately,are not ready to be called a guru.
By what you said in your post,you lack belief in who you are,what you've been doing,and where you'll think you'll be later on.
So,the best thing for you to do is to get your shit together,work 100x harder on what you've been doing,realize that hardly anyone is going to support you but yourself,and last but not least...
...Write a book like the rest of em.
Hope this enlightened you.
Oh,and yes Imperial,although most wont support you,I support you 100% on you're path.That's why I told you this straight up.This is reality bro.Reality is harsh.With the right mindset,Reality can be bitched,and THAT...is a form of success.Good luck. |
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Methuselah
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"I wanna be a PUG"
Just sounds so damn funny to me.
Shut the fuck up about Mystery, Style, Juggler, and whoever else.
Becoming a so-called guru won't bring any genuine happiness to your life, it might seem like it, but the real idea you want is the self-improvement, not the goal of becoming the worlds greatest pickup artist. No-one gives a fuck about that, and you shouldn't shape your world around becoming some faggot-ass guru with an ego that needs to be stroked in order for them to be happy. |
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Johnny Providence
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| i read your "hopeless" post, and i think youre headed in the right direction. just dont say you are going to be the best, channel that energy towards learning. youre gona get rejected alot and youre going to feel extremely down, just remember you can benefit from being shot down. If you learn from your mistakes, every mistake you make will make you more powerful in the end. so go out there and get shot down. i challenge you to be the best |
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Dirk Debonaire
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 8:43 pm Post subject: Re: TIRED |
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| Imperial wrote: | | I'm so damn tired of being the stupid victim all the time. I have the potential to be a PUG. I could be just like Style, Mystery, Juggler whatever. I just keep thinking I'm not good enough. I Just need to get my head out of my ass. For everybody in this room, I want to let you guys know that I am ready to become the best there is. I am becoming a Pick-Up Guru and nobody is going to stop me. I'm ready. Are you guys with me? |
Almost everyone has potential to be a so called PUG, or what I like say, a master PUA. But there is a difference between recognizing you have the potential and actually prooving you have the potential. You can say how you can do this or that all you want, but until you actually do it, it remains just a thought in your head. And this is where I think you spend too much of your time, in your head. Wanna be a PUG, or at least improve your PUA skills? Great. But wanting is only one piece of the puzzle. Now what you have to do is actually get out there and start putting theory into practice. Of course, you don't have to suddenly go overboard and try to become a PUG overnight. But you have to be doing things to, as you say, get your head out of your ass. For instance, go to the gym and work on your outer game occasionally, or even start working out at home. There's nothing hard about that is there? Go to the clothing stores, and get some clothes specifically for picking up and peacocking. Be sure to ask the ladies for advice on what looks good on you! Basically, do SOMETHING which will bring you closer to achieving your goals. Sitting on your arse thinking how good you are is not doing something. Sure, we've got to be confident in ourselves, but the trick to retain that confidence is to PROOVE that confidence. Not to the whole world mind you, but to YOURSELF. Fact is, no one gets anywhere just being stuck in their heads. Believe me, I know. I can sit at home all day long imagining myself easily approaching chicks. But until I actually go out there and do it, it's not real, and it sure ain't satisfying. Also, when I do manage to get out on the field, I find it is a A LOT fucking harder than it seems. Fact is, these PUGs, and even just your average PUA, have some big fucking balls to do what they do. And, as I hope your starting to realize, your not going to grow balls with some magic fairy dust. Blood, sweat, tears or at least a little bit of EFFORT is what you need, not just support and ambitious goals. So go get active. NOW!  |
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