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jsr52
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 Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 5:04 pm Post subject: I can give my friends advice but I can't follow up |
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Whenever I give my friends advice or some sort of opener when we are with girls they always end up using my advice and scoring
But for some reason I am never able to use my own advice. Its like im playin other peoples game but I can't play my own.
Advice?
thanks in advance. |
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JUSTINcredible!
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| Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 5:15 pm Post subject: |
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Mybe you need to work on your pressence, body language, approach and voice tonality(i think its a word).
I myself is at that stage where I have the uncanny ability to hook up my friends, but gotta work hard to hook myself up.
You've got the tools you just need to know how to use them, cuz seems like your friends do.
Hope this makes sense and it helps...Im a little tipsy.
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jinla
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| Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 5:23 pm Post subject: |
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You already know what you need to do. So if you need to hear it from someone else, get you ass out there and get to work!
Drop the anxiety, you have to get to the point where you don't give a shit whether girls reject you or not. Remember that its not personal. If you get rejected, who gives a fuck, move on to the next. I always remind myself that I have heard no from my mom a million times, so whats one more.
The first day I decided i was gonna enter the PUA game, I went out and said "hello" or "how are you doing" to every girl I could, Just so I could get used to talking to girls. You should go out and do the same. Most importantly, make sure to do it with girls you would never think you had a chance with, even the 10s. You will be surprised at the responses you will get. The ones that respond well will make you feel better about yourself. Some will not respond so well, just brush it off.
Relax, relax, relax. Have fun. |
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jsr52
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| Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 5:23 pm Post subject: |
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| ya i know wut u mean, thanks bro |
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Born2Play
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| Sounds like an innergame issue? I think im sorta at the same place but im only a week into this comunity. I think it might be more of a mental "I know how just cant" deal. Think you can, beleive you can, expect you can and you will. |
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