i completely froze up today...WTF!!!!!

xxIcexx

alrite so today was my fist day of college and from the moment i stepped foot on campus it was a disaster

i thought it was monday so i ended up in the wrong class, this hb9 that sat right in the front just laughed at me, i just smiled and walked out of class, of course everyone else had a smirk on their face trying to hold it in

so i was late to my statistics class and i walk in....hb9 right in the front of class so i sit in the row next to her but once seat behind

i also noticed two other girls thats i was cool with from the previous semester but i couldnt sit with them because i was late and the seats next to them were taken.....so class goes on...boring statistics stuff

so throughout the class, maybe two or three time i see the hb9 staring back at me out of the corner of my eye so i know right there thats an IOI..occasionally i saw her strutting her hair and rocking back and forth in her chair, not and IOI but maybe she was feeling conscious at the moment because when i know people are staring at me i tend to move around alot

but after that i completely froze up, did not know what to say....i usually dont have a problem meeting new people but ahhh this sucks

i have class with her again thrusday and i have to say something or else its a blown opportunity, i wouldnt be surprised if i already blew up

can yo uguys help me out with something, give me some ideas what to say or anything?

Jack · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 4:30 am Post subject:

open with her but dont rush anything imo. you definitely see her twice a week, let her see you talk to the girls you know and slowly game her. Thatswhat i would do, maybe not the best way but its worked for me before.

Apollo · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 4:49 am Post subject:

First impressions are extremely heavy... Now, since you haven't really spoken to her yet, you still have a first impression to make. You are starting off lower than you should because of the events that unfolded already.

You just need to keep calm and be natural. Talk to her with C/F and confidence. You will do fine.

SouthernCross · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 5:28 am Post subject:

Since you were sitting behind her you should gone up to her *Wide Eyed and said DAMN GIRL the back of your head is rediculous
a then repeatedly ask: So can get yo number!!!
J/K

but seriously you've haven't messed up yet you're in the same class so you're going to see her again.
People tend to stick to certain seats in specific areas of classroom most of the semester that's been my experience anyways. So why not next time get to class early and see where she sits then go sit next her and say hi she's not going anywhere trust me
Don't let HB's paralyze you with fear

EasyLover · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 5:40 am Post subject:

iam fuzz · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 5:58 am Post subject:

Best thing about school opportunities... they come around more than 1000x. Youll get your shot.

-fuzz

xxIcexx · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 2:10 pm Post subject:

i know i have approach anxiety, but all the other semesters there was absolutely no problem, i just froze up, if i had something to say i probably could have, i just had nothing

jinla · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:14 pm Post subject:

I'd give yourself a 3 sec rule on this one. This should destroy your anxiety. Tell yourself this is something you must do, no excuses.

Inconspicuously wait outside the class, as soon as she walks in and seats herself, sit right next to her and open her. remember to lean back and don't talk to fast. If you really want to sauce it up. Open her, fluff/neg and then move somewhere else like you don't even want to sit next to her cause you need to focus on school work.

If you fuck it up, who cares, there are plenty of other 9s out their. There may even be some cuties in the same class, that you haven't noticed because you been focusing on this one.

Don't wait around too long assuming she will be there the whole semester/quarter. I have had numerous hotties that i got complacent on, and then next thing your know, she drops the class, resulting in a missed op for me. For some reason hot chicks drop a lot. Hmmm.

xxIcexx · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:20 pm Post subject:

well i gotta do everything tomorrow or i can consider this a missed op.

im going to try getting to class a little early because on tuesday i was late

so im going to go to work, think about something i could say, and just go with it tomorrow

Jack · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:12 pm Post subject:

Archangel White Rose · Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:05 am Post subject:

Heres an idea:
tear out a page from your notebook, draw a tic tac toe or hangman, and at the top write "play me or die of boredom!"
This is also funny and also a challenge. Just don't get caught passing notes!

xxIcexx · Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:12 am Post subject:

haha well we sit right in front of class and theres only like 2o people, so i know the potential in the class

Jack · Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 5:34 am Post subject:

xxIcexx · Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:41 pm Post subject:

alrite well im going off to class....gonna try not to fuck this up...after all shes only a girl

xxIcexx · Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 7:45 pm Post subject:

alrite well didnt go as well as i thought

i was late againnn because parking sucks at my school and i was in the lot for 20 minutes looking, but occasionally during class we made some eye contact and a few words were shared, it go somewhere...didnt lose this one yet but now ive at least talked to her a bit during class

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