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tdboy
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 Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 6:33 am Post subject: She wears Sunglasses |
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Ok Guys,
This can be either for day game or club game. When a girl is wearing sunglasses, what are some good approaches? I know it can seem obvious. But, postings might help tweak this a bit.
It can be a two part discussion breaking down the day approach versus the night approach.
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AceSpade
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"Why are you wearing those, someone give ya a black eye?"
"What are you trying to hide under those things?"
"Those would look better on me"
"Did you get those down the street at [insert cheap store here], I was considering getting a pair for my little sister" |
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tdboy
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 8:53 am Post subject: |
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Acespade,
That is an awesome reply. thanks for the info...
Another question then, what do you think will work better in the field, the comment above or a opinion approach?
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 9:38 am Post subject: |
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| I love your glasses, they were really in a few years ago! |
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| I seen you creeping on me. |
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Well any of the prior openers would work no problem.
however the only reason people wear sun glasses is to try to make themselves look cool, so when you're engaged in conversation with her say something like "why you wearing that, trying to be like shaft", or "are you really a super hero without those on, or are you just trying to mess with me".
All people wear sunglasses so other people don't see the retreat in the eyes, that's why people like James Bond don't wear sun glasses 'cause he doesn't need them plain and simple. |
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tdboy
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| Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 1:58 am Post subject: Earphones |
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| All these are good answers. I like them. How about when she is wearing the sunglasses and headphones? Now what do you do; a bump to get her attention? |
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AceSpade
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| Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 2:14 am Post subject: Re: Earphones |
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| tdboy wrote: | | All these are good answers. I like them. How about when she is wearing the sunglasses and headphones? Now what do you do; a bump to get her attention? |
Punch her in the face.:-p
You're making it too hard on yourself, i wouldnt even bother. But if you really wanna....tap her ont he shoulder, then be like, what song was that...she'll answer, change subject, neg the sunglasses and proceed. |
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| Thanks Bro. I make it into "Theory PUA" at times |
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"Man those glasses are HUGE! It's like they're swallowing your face."
This is assuming she is wearing those massive hideous glasses that are in these days. |
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| I don't know why you're making such a big deal out of this, it's probably just one big bitch sheild or her being insecure, just go through, as long as you get her to take her sunglasses off (super easy, she'll just take it off as soon as you say something), you'll be fine. |
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If they are obviously trendy high end shades, and she is HB 8+, then open with something else and save the glasses as a target for a neg run. After you are into the set, and have gotten any sort of positive response try this.
You: "Those goggles are pretty funky, did your little sister pick them out for you."
Her: "Uhh....these are Dolce and Gab blah blah blah...."
You: "You should take those off..."
Her (taking them off)
You (before she even gets em off....averting your eyes, turning your head away, and putting your hand up to interupt eye contact, but with a smirk that makes it clear you are messing with her) "Oooh...put em back on....quick."
That's a lot of negging, so your body language and tone has to compensate the other way....but not so much that she is 100% sure you are joking. Very mixed signals. Don't go this route unless you are sure you can get her to take them off when you ask.... |
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" hey, where'd you get your fake glasses? my lesbian friend wanted some like that."
i've only ever gamed a few girls with sunglasses on...maybe cos that's due to being in England. But most of the time i ignore the fact they have them on, n quite often they take them off anyway. |
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