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jinla
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 Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:15 pm Post subject: Approaching same girl twice |
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What up, I want to know what you guys think about trying the same girl a second time after being shot down.
There is this HB10 at my college/gym and i see her often. Saw her in a bar one night and tried to holler. Although she was nice, she avoided me like the plague.
My rule is usually never approach twice, but this girl is fucking hot, and its eating at me.
Would you guys go in again? If so, what strategies would you use. |
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Sovnarkom
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| Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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| I would try again but not try what i mean is like mate i think u need to improve urself then do wht tha fuck u want but please dont humiliate urself |
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jbeld
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| Your problem is obviously she has judged you to be a lower status male. She has made up in her mind you are not worth it. I wouldn't approach her directly because you are just gonna get shot down and she isn't going to give you a chance to redeem yourself. But if you can work your way up with other groups of people and prove you are worthy (ie. chatting up other girls/guys in the gym) you can work up the worth in her head and just play that one night in the bar off as being a little too drunk. Only once you've established yourself as "the baller" in the club or gym, maybe even get to know her friends. Then you can reapproach. Thoughts? |
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Crush
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| Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 10:23 pm Post subject: |
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ive reapproached one previously-failed girl, although my situation was a little different. i used a lot of negs, DHV'd my ass off, played it cocky and funny and ended up getting head.
its doable. like i said my situation is different. I also took the time and won over her friends (and sister), and after that she fell into place. |
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swiftone
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I had a different situation but what I learned is that a second impression can be pulled of if you admit to being embarrassed however the challenge is DHV afterwards... but here's what i did... I fucked up my first approach and then she wouldn't even turn to look at me so it went like this...
ME: I don't know if you did it on purpose but I waved hello to you the other day and you completely blew me off so i was embarrassed to say hello to you again...
HB: I did? OMG i'm sorry i didn't mean to maybe i had a lot of things on my mind and wasn't paying attention
ME: I knew you weren't conceited and rude... hey I like your dress I saw someone else here who had the exact same one
HB: She has good taste that's why... hahahha
and the convo went on from there to the point where now i was starting to neg her and make her start chasing me... a few days later she approached me and started asking me where i was from etc etc |
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