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Aboe
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 Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 7:59 am Post subject: becoming the alpha leader? |
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yester i was hanging around with 2 friends wich where smoking weed
suddenly 2 HB's walked upon us (HB7.5 HB8,5) with a big attitude
it seemed they knew 1 of my friends and gave him a slap in the face saying have you bin smoking weed again? this made me laugh very hard and they asked me in a angry kind of a way if he has bin smoking weed again
i answered no he would never do such a thing.
these where clearly funny as hell alpha females (if that exist)
now they joined our group and just sat down started talking etc
they where negging the shit out of my friend(in an insulting funny way) and making him DLV all the
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this cracked me up and i started to do some funny&cocky and lots of negging to these girls(tried not to be too much insulting i am shure i would get beat) and it gone like this untill they left 15 mins later
how would you have acted in this way?
and how would i have made myself looking the alpha male or leader of the group |
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hugsnkisses
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Is HB hott blonde? And what the hell is DLV?
You don't have to be the 'alpha male'. (Using that term makes me laugh!) Just be yourself. And don't 'neg' people or whatever. Why would people like to be insulted? I don't get it? Why can't you just say what comes into your head and act like a nice guy? I'm pretty sure you want a girl that likes you for you, not just who you pretend to be. Then again, if you're just looking for sex, do what you have to.
And fyi - If you're over 20, smoking weed = huge turn off!! |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 10:31 pm Post subject: |
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| hugsnkisses wrote: | | And fyi - If you're over 20, smoking weed = huge turn off!! |
Matter of opinion there dipshit. |
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hugsnkisses
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| Pretty sure this whole website is a matter of opinion. |
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run4life413
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| Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 10:39 pm Post subject: advantage |
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| in your post it sounds like you werent smoking weed but both of thewm were.....right there thats got to be a huge advantage when im with friends that have been smoking and i havnt, i can controll the situation so easily its like smoking will auto make them beta males. being with them probly made you look better by comparison to those chicks unless they were major stoners witch im personaly not into,... big turn off. |
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DB
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| Dude i dont know, im also new to this, i wasnt there obiously, but it seem that you neg them all time, you didnt pic one of them and its seem they were ok with you, but i think you should've pick one, neg on the one you picked and them isolate her and built an attraction and try and number close or hope for better. |
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Israel
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| Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:14 am Post subject: |
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| methuselah wrote: | | Matter of opinion there dipshit. |
Agreed  .
Also hugsnkisses - learn some fucking terminology before you start saying shit like you know what you're talking about. |
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Mech
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| hugsnkisses wrote: | Is HB hott blonde? And what the hell is DLV?
You don't have to be the 'alpha male'. (Using that term makes me laugh!) Just be yourself. And don't 'neg' people or whatever. Why would people like to be insulted? I don't get it? Why can't you just say what comes into your head and act like a nice guy? I'm pretty sure you want a girl that likes you for you, not just who you pretend to be. Then again, if you're just looking for sex, do what you have to.
And fyi - If you're over 20, smoking weed = huge turn off!! |
Yeah, yeah. Plenty of decent guys are told to just be themselves every day while women make off with the cocky guys who treat them like crap. Then they come back to the nice guys to complain about it.
I like the whole "be yourself, but be your BEST self" concept, personally. I know that the women I hang out with like me for me, but they also appreciate that I work out, I dress well, I can keep them interested and laughing for an extended period of time and I'm charismatic. This is a dramatic improvement from "being myself" during college. I was the shy guy who sent flowers, paid for dinner, etc... just to see the girls I liked go screw frat boys who treated them like shit.
The PUA community is driving a men's self improvement movement. It's good for everyone.d
I don't agree about the weed thing either. I would smoke it too if I didn't have to worry about security clearance. |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 4:07 am Post subject: |
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| hugsnkisses wrote: | | Pretty sure this whole website is a matter of opinion. |
Would you like to elaborate on that perhaps? Or was that just some kind of a retarded filler statement with no apparent meaning to it? |
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Aboe
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| Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 10:07 am Post subject: |
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| Methuselah wrote: | | hugsnkisses wrote: | | And fyi - If you're over 20, smoking weed = huge turn off!! |
Matter of opinion there dipshit. |
im 19 and dont smoke weed anymore my friends where tho
its kind of usual to smoke weed where i life
holland- Amsterdam
also it aint a turn off since the girls smoked weed themself |
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Aboe
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| Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 10:26 am Post subject: |
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| hugsnkisses wrote: | Is HB hott blonde? And what the hell is DLV?
You don't have to be the 'alpha male'. (Using that term makes me laugh!) Just be yourself. And don't 'neg' people or whatever. Why would people like to be insulted? I don't get it? Why can't you just say what comes into your head and act like a nice guy? I'm pretty sure you want a girl that likes you for you, not just who you pretend to be. Then again, if you're just looking for sex, do what you have to.
And fyi - If you're over 20, smoking weed = huge turn off!! |
as what israel says learn some fucking terminology
by negging i was not insulting them i was DHVing myself by showing balls
since my friend got negged in a funny way i did the same to them wich didnt seem to insult them
and also i aint looking for sex im just playing the game becaus i love the game and want to improve with it
also besides your bs(yes that means bull shit not butt sex) i agreed on that the website is all a matter of opinion you cant find a lot of facts here about what turns woman on
different woman take different aproaches and since these where hot shots with attitude i thought negging and putting my chest in front of them was the best thing to do
opinions on this please
ok now on to another db why should i neg only 1 explain? |
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negsta
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[quote="hugsnkisses"]Is HB hott blonde? And what the hell is DLV?
You don't have to be the 'alpha male'. (Using that term makes me laugh!) Just be yourself. And don't 'neg' people or whatever. Why would people like to be insulted? I don't get it? Why can't you just say what comes into your head and act like a nice guy? I'm pretty sure you want a girl that likes you for you, not just who you pretend to be. Then again, if you're just looking for sex, do what you have to.
And fyi - If you're over 20, smoking weed = huge turn off!![/quote]
Sigh...if only you knew.
A neg is not a DHV as such (although it can be), it is rather a false disqualifier,. The idea is to show that you're not interested in a girl, which disengages lockup and stop her making up her mind on you before you have the chance to DHV yourself during attraction. It doesn't have to be an insult(although some negs, such as those used in active disinterest, are blatant insults). This is why Style used the line "If I wasn't gay, you'd be SO mine." It stopped the girl judging him as a potential boyfriend/one night stand before she got to know him.
Remember guys, it's FALSE DISQUALIFICATION, not blatant agression. |
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BigB
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| man... no alpha male is gona be smokin that dank.... get away from that shit and do well in school |
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CorvetteFan86
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| hugsnkisses wrote: | Is HB hott blonde? And what the hell is DLV?
You don't have to be the 'alpha male'. (Using that term makes me laugh!) Just be yourself. And don't 'neg' people or whatever. Why would people like to be insulted? I don't get it? Why can't you just say what comes into your head and act like a nice guy? I'm pretty sure you want a girl that likes you for you, not just who you pretend to be. Then again, if you're just looking for sex, do what you have to. |
All being the nice guys does is:
Makes you a puss.
Makes you just the friend instead of the one she wants.
Makes you the one that hears all their bitching.
Imo i think that neg them makes sure that you arnt the puss and that youll give it right back to them to show you can be what they want.
This place and the show "The pick-up artist" Has been the best things that could ever happen to me personally. I have learned so many things and understand why they work.
The reality is when girls say that they have been screwed over blah blah blah and want a nice guy it is a lie. Girls love playing with our minds and this site and the show show us how to deal with their true selves.
Tommy |
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Paetar
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Lets go back to the original question. How would I act? I am pretty witty myself now, and confident, so I can keep up. Sincerely, this type of girls turns me on, but that's not the question here. I would go back on them, also in cocky/funny way, defend my pals, show them that I am the alpha man of that group. Later just arrange meetings with girls. And that's that, baby!
Carpe Diem. |
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