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GrownShit504
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 Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 3:17 am Post subject: Ways to tell a girl you want to just be physical |
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There's these two girls who I've been working on lately. One's a 9 and the other is an 8. The HB9 is in a relationship but we hang out a lot without her boyfriend there and she mirrors me down to the last detail every time we hang out; she also tells me she's ready to dump her boyfriend soon. The 8 I am very confident I can get with too. She calls me all the time wanting to hang out. The only problem: they're best friends!
Ideally I would like to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with the 8 while I'm waiting on the 9 to break it off with the other guy. Will this work, or will they just both turn against me if I choose one over the other, or try to have both at the same time? |
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Mech
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| Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 4:36 am Post subject: |
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| Your biggest problem will be moving from one friend to the other once the one who now has a boyfriend is single. |
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duck
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| Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 6:10 pm Post subject: |
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The term "mushroom stamp" comes to mind but probably not helpful.
If you try for both - you will burn IMO - women are weird that way. I would chose one and go for it - but if you can pull it off - re-read Styles chapter on the dual massage/3 some thing in "The Game".
Good luck - keep yourself out of the friend zone with both by using strong sexual tension. |
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| Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 7:04 pm Post subject: |
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If they are trully "BEST" friends, one of them has probably talked about you as more than a friend to the other. Assuming that, if neither have come to you giggling saying, "I think HB8 has a crush on you..heee heee" or "What do you think about HB9?...heeee heee" then you may be able to pull both.
If they are just good friends, the following applies just as the above will also.
Girls can be persuaded to have "physical only" relationships, even if they know your with the other girl too. Just don't trigger her "flight mechanism" by making her feel slutty. Instead, use the situation and the sexual tension to bring all three of you closer. You can avoid triggering her alarm with playful, yet suggestive gestures/comments while hanging out with her as friends right now.
The next time she talks about dumping her boyfriend, make a joke like "He sucks THAT BAD in bed, huh?"
This is an oppropriate time to make a very blunt comment like, "you couldn't handle me in bed, I'll have to show you how its done sometime" (playful, laughing/pause.....)
If she freaks out about the idea of you too sleeping together...jump back to friend mode for now, and focus on the other girl.
DUCK made a comment above that I don't always 100% agree with (from my experience). If the girls are NOT ACTUAL BEST FRIENDS, each will want to prove her dominance to choose any partner she wants to the other. This will push one closer to you faster, and the other will be jelous also pulling her closer to you.
I've been able to not only sleep with several girls and their friends, I have actually had several introduce me to more of their friends!
**Disclaimer**If you have any intent of keeping either girl as true friend later down the road, don't play this game! |
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Stoli
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| Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 7:05 pm Post subject: |
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Dang it, the above was from me...I forgot to log back in.  |
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C-DUB
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| Posted: Wed Aug 29, 2007 2:01 am Post subject: |
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Girls talk.
You know they do. |
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| Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 10:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Girls talk, but you know that one will be jealous and want what there friend has. |
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