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Skocalon
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 Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 6:10 pm Post subject: approaching girl at haagen-dazs, advice please. |
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| there is this girl at the ice cream shop, i tried speaking to her once before but she smiled and told me she had a boyfriend. but now that i walk into the shop she always gives me this warm look and smiles and says "long time no see" because i dont go there that often anymore. i really want this girl, any good advice? |
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duck
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 6:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Ignore the fact she has a BF - and work as usual. |
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Skocalon
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 6:15 pm Post subject: |
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| she shut me down once, should i come at her a certain way now? |
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duck
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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If you have been in there enough to get shut down 2x - that's too much.
Stop in maybe every 2 weeks and start with "You still working here? I am going to have to reconsider my choice in ice-cream." Walk out.
She is going to think you are an ass but is going to wonder what the heck that was about.
Come back like 10 mins later and say "I have reconsidered - I'll let you serve me ice-cream" DHV.
Don't try to close her in any way - CF is the way to roll now as there is some sort of relationship already.
Take your time, don't become a fixture there - hell walk by with some other ice cream in your hand and simply wave or say hi and go. Make her want to engage you.
You haven't given her a reason to be interested yet.
She said she has a BF - kindly remind her that it has nothing to do with the fact that you wanted 2 scoops of blue moon and the BF talk isn't making that happen. Then leave with your ice cream. |
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Dex
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 7:47 pm Post subject: |
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"What, only 30 flavours today? Fuck this, I'm going to Baskin Robbins"
"I don't know, what would you recommend today?"
"[blah]"
"That's funny, I had you picked more for [something with a stupid name] kinda girl"
"I don't know.. what would you recommend today?"
"[blah]"
"cool, can I have two scoops of [something else]"
"I don't know.. what would you recommend today?"
"[blah]"
"cool, can I have two scoops of anything that's not that."
"Boyfriend eh? Just so long as you're sure he's not using you for free ice cream. [optional: Because that's the only reason I'd ever date you.]. Better make sure you hang onto this job just in case."
*shrug*
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Hassler
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 8:30 pm Post subject: |
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| Yea, i'd just neg the shit out of her like the 2 previous guys have reccomended |
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Slick85
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Dex wrote: | "What, only 30 flavours today? Fuck this, I'm going to Baskin Robbins"
"I don't know, what would you recommend today?"
"[blah]"
"That's funny, I had you picked more for [something with a stupid name] kinda girl"
"I don't know.. what would you recommend today?"
"[blah]"
"cool, can I have two scoops of [something else]"
"I don't know.. what would you recommend today?"
"[blah]"
"cool, can I have two scoops of anything that's not that."
"Boyfriend eh? Just so long as you're sure he's not using you for free ice cream. [optional: Because that's the only reason I'd ever date you.]. Better make sure you hang onto this job just in case."
*shrug*
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hahaha i might have to do this in ice cream shops myself |
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Hiroshima
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| haha, that's what I was thinking... bf or not, that shit is good... |
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Jewels
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 1:54 pm Post subject: Ice Cream shopener |
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Great advice kid! (Fuck this...going to BR)
One more point though...
She already TOLD you she had a bf ! Did you ask her? I hope not....
If you did, ALL you can do now is try this approach from above and/or KEEP going in the store even MORE frequently. Who cares that she has a bf! Prolly some supplicator that rinses her maxi pad off for her! Some chump! She'd much prefer YOU, and a champion of women and slayer of panties!
Just keep working on her with flirts, LOTS of eye contact, and laughs!
The MORE she sees YOU, the more the attraction will build for you!
Towards the end of the week, or when it's slow is better, find out when she's on break or lunch and invite YOURSELF to SIT WITH her and continue the rap! The fact that she has a bf is good, that should turn YOU into Mr. Hugenuts b/c you got nothing to lose! Get it?
Happy hunting...
Jewels.
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