question opener for the dance floor

Mad Gecko

so i went out to a bar tonight with a couple of my friends who do not know anything about the PUA community. I got out kind of late so it was probably 45 minutes before last call when i arrived. i was looking around the bar trying to find a target.

now i have been reading PUA posts, books and what not for the past few months so i could write you a pretty decent essay explaining the details of these different methods but as far as going and doing cold approaches in real life i am still a novice.

i live in a college town where the majority of people are preppy. so for tonight i decided to do my best to fit in with them, without spending too much money on name brand stuff....(i went to wallmart and found the ugliest plad shorts and polo shirt that matched)

anyhow, thats a whole different story. the point i was getting at there is that there were many many 4 or 5 sets and about everyone had at least 2 HB that were 7+ but thre were also alot of AFC sitting around looking bored and sort of glancing at the girls longinly but never making a move.

the dance floor probably had 10 people on it. 1 of which was a guy, the rest all fairly attractive women with a couple of HB8 mixed in. i talk to my friend and tell him the only reason girls dance together usually is because the guys are too scared. he disagrees and says they are having "girl time".

i bet him the next drink that i can go up and ask to dance with them and that they will happily take me in and dance with me since i am a guy.

this is what happens:

i walk up to the two girls at a slight angle, make eye contact with one of them and smile. she sees me and smiles back with a "yay! a guy is coming to dance with us" look in her eye. i get to them and lean in close and ask them "are you two girls dancing together because you are having girl time, or are you just together because all the guys are to scared to dance with you?" they both light up at this and pull me in to start dancing with them. i dance for a little while and then tell them my friend wants to join but is too shy. The girls all tell me to go get him. i tell them i will need their help. they agree and we go to find my friend. Having a two HB7 and a HB8 happily follow you through a field of a bunch of dejected looking AFC is really fulfilly by the way.

anyways, i just wanted to post what happeend to night and to tell everyone that from what i can tell if you are at a dance club and there are two girls dancing it never hurts to ask and innocent question....and if you make a bet with one of your more modest friends you might win a drink!

oh, question, lets say i had my eyes on HB8, but HB7 seems into me and keeps talking to me and then we happen to get isolated....how do i get to HB8 smoothly? should i jsut play it cool for the time being, establish a friendship with HB& and try to use her as a pivot on a later date?

stevenha0617 · Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 10:53 pm Post subject:

An opener could be... YOU WANNA FREAK? but you gotta look good and hot stuff... not "wanna dance?"

dorian · Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 5:42 am Post subject:

cool story. Indeed, all it takes is confidence and balls. Well done bro!

But please tell us what else happened with these girls. # closed or something?

cheers.

Big Dog · Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 1:43 pm Post subject: Gd idea

Yeh man, that sounds like a gd idea, especially as it doesn't neccessarily seem like you r hitting on them.

Big Dog

Dizzy · Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 5:50 pm Post subject:

Pretty slick man.

Marcus87 · Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 7:53 pm Post subject:

very slick

Tekken · Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 12:47 am Post subject:

Good one man. Thats defo a keeper for the night club scene.

But I'm curious about a few things.

Did you have a follow up routine for both answers? I mean, I can imagine saying that to a girl and hur replying 'we're having some girl time'. And that'd be me screwed. Did you have a back up plan for girl time?

Also, lets say, if they did say that all the guys were too scared to dance with them - what would you have done thenn? Begin dancing
immediately? Talk to them? Or actually ask them for a dance?

I'll be honest, the more I read it, the more it sounds rather lucky. I'm not trying to take anything away from you bro, you've obviously got ballz going upto the gurls and talking to them in the first place Smile

. But if they gave you an answer instead of pulling you in, whut were you planning on doing next? =)

(I know I seem really interested in what you might've done lol as I'm a good dancer and would like to try and pick up girls more often at clubs instead of bars.

ANDeeZY · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 5:10 pm Post subject:

good opener.

Dance floor openers (especially with the music being extra loud) are ment to be short and sweet (not literally sweet).

I noticed that most college towns usually have 2x more AFC's in the club than the bigger cities.

john deere · Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:03 am Post subject:

I'm using this

phuckles · Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 7:17 am Post subject:

i like it. great how you turned it around into kind of a game and took the immediate attention off of yourself. it gave you a motive to be on the dance floor, not just to be with the HB's, you were lookin out for your buddy. nice. well played. you get rep points from me.

Sutko · Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 10:39 pm Post subject:

flawless · Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 7:57 pm Post subject:

A little off topic but, Never thank a girl for a dance, it's low value.

Jsun · Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 4:39 pm Post subject:

very nice. sometimes girls just want to dance with their friends, so this opener is great to figure that out - you can avoid the *going up and dancing with, who is this creep, get rejected* routine

MattJacks · Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 4:54 pm Post subject:

porktinez · Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:10 am Post subject:

Nice work.

I would suggest leaving out the part about your friend being shy. Always pump up your buddies rather than de-value them. If the girls think you run with cool guys . . . all of a suddden you're a cool guy too!

As for your question at the end: I would assess the situation and see if there was any possible way to pull only the 8. If not I would try to get them both back to my pad to keep the party going. If still no way to pull the 8 I'd fuck the 7...

It is what it is!

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