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Spazer
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 Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:21 am Post subject: What happens after all the PUA skills are used up |
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This whole world is new and very intriguing but i am confused on one thing. What happens if you wanna follow up for more than a second date or even if the girl kinda forces it on you. Just say no right? Well in everything i have read, you say no, she comes on to you stronger if she is interested. I have No idea how the second date or maybe relationship after hook up works out. I mean you can't spit game forever with the same girl. Can you?
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CaptinAmerica
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HAHA i read post like this all the time and hear it all the time when i explain this method of picking up women to other guys. they always say the same thins "aren't you not being yourself, and after if oyu keep dating she is going to figure out the first guy was not you" WRONG
When ever you use any other this stuff it should be natural and flow from you not be forced from you. After you meet a HB and you want to make it into something more just use the push pull philosophy (which im not going to explain) By using that you keep the relation ship interesting and keep her wanting more. Just remember that easiness on your part is boredom on her part. |
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VEE
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| drink an energy drink...that will boost you |
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Impact
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what happens when your game runs out?
you dont fall back on afc
you fall back on being a man!
and it works!
u gotta build a man first tho  |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 12:52 pm Post subject: |
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| VEE wrote: | | drink an energy drink...that will boost you |
LMAO!
| Spazer wrote: | This whole world is new and very intriguing but i am confused on one thing. What happens if you wanna follow up for more than a second date or even if the girl kinda forces it on you. Just say no right? Well in everything i have read, you say no, she comes on to you stronger if she is interested. I have No idea how the second date or maybe relationship after hook up works out. I mean you can't spit game forever with the same girl. Can you?
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Yes, you can spit game forever and ever and ever. That is unless your idea of game is boring routines used by canned PUA's, then no you can't spit game forever. However, if your not a social moron and have wits that are able to see past the canned knowledge and understand why our ideas and theories work, then yes. You can game a girl you just met just as much as you can game your wife of several years, that is of course, only if you want to. |
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diapente
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| CaptinAmerica wrote: | HAHA i read post like this all the time and hear it all the time when i explain this method of picking up women to other guys. they always say the same thins "aren't you not being yourself, and after if you keep dating she is going to figure out the first guy was not you" WRONG
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When people say shit like that it irritates the fuck out of me. The only people who are "being themselves" when it comes to pick up are the people who are born naturals and the people who became naturals. Even the hugest AFC out there isn't being himself when he tries to pick up women. Why? Because I guarantee that all of his pick up "skill" was learned at some point. AFCs are taught by society at large (like Hollywood) to take women to expensive restaurants, buy them flowers, and suck up to them thinking that this is what works. This is LEARNED BEHAVIOR and isn't natural. It just so happens that this learned behavior isn't what women find attractive, therefore it's an "acceptable" way of not being yourself. |
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OneTime
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I dont' get how you can struggle to still be creative even after you've used all your lines. You should really read Juggler's Conversation Jujitsu. He talks about being your self but a much more interesting person to talk to. You build emotion and meaning to every story you tell. You make open ended statements not open ended questions.
This way you can still be yourself and even the the most mundane stories in to mesmerizing ones.
I have yet to try this one, but I'm definately going to use it when I get in to rapport with a girl.
Me: Your eyes remind me of late night swims in the pool as a kid.
Her: How's that?
Me: When I was 11, late at night I'd go swimming with my friends. The light at the bottom of the deep-end taunted me every time. Chills ran down my spine as I peered over from the ledge. The beacon seemed lonely, yet caring, only to be hidden deep down where no one could reach its core. I took a chance.
Her: weren't you afraid you'd drown? (or whatever, I'd stop there and wait to see if she was hooked, if she asks a question then obviously she is and I'd be doing this while keeping a constant stare in her weak eye.)
Me: Ya, but I jumped in, it cold water were like daggers piercing my flesh, my heart froze for a moment. Heart beated faster as I got closer. (I'd start slowly coming in on her) I'm running out of air but it's so close. (stop moving in and wait for the hook, or pause for dramatic effect) On my last ounce of strength (I'd go in for the kiss right there)
(If she rejects it, then there's no point of finishing the story, if she doesn't, she pretty much gets what you were trying to say.)
That is infact a real story about me on my first time down in the deep end. I think it's much better than, "your eyes are beautiful"
Make your story meaningful to her in some way. You can express all the emotions you're going through at that moment, I don't know if using present tense at the end would be better or worse though. I don't know about using the present tense or not near the end, better field test it, hopefully soon.
I mean if you're on a 2nd date w/ her, you've already built a pretty good rapport w/ her that you would easily be able to talk about deep emotions and have her hooked on it. And I think after you've shown her your playful C&F side and showed how you can create an intest romantic story, I think she'd be hooked. Well atleast in my mind for now.
I mean don't take my example like it's a proven method or anything, shit, I haven't even tried it yet. I'm just saying, you can be very creative with your personal stories to have her more interested in you than before. Canned lines will only work for so long, in ur case 1 day. But you're life stories can last forever.
Like Juggler says, if you can make your grocery list interesting you can easily make any of your life stories interesting. |
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