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lacboy
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 Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 10:24 am Post subject: dont act interested |
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i think us shy people out there need to pretend we are not interested in the HB a little more because if they sense you are interested in them through arkwardness or being over friendly they seem to get turned off because they like confidense. we must trick them into believeing we are confident and to do this speak smothly and slowly do not hesitate and dont speak too fast.
one time i remember in particular at the grocerry the casheire chick asked me a question about a food item i was buying i musta came off as " i cant believe shes talking to me" and lets just say the conversation didnt go anywhere. if i would have told her the same thing but more relaxed i know the convo could have easily went in other directions so lets just relax and try to pull it off in a more casual way. |
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VEE
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| Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 6:13 am Post subject: |
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| ur still supplicating...but i guess fake it till u make it.. |
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Realz
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| Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 1:38 pm Post subject: Re: dont act interested |
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| lacboy wrote: |
one time i remember in particular at the grocerry the casheire chick asked me a question about a food item i was buying i musta came off as " i cant believe shes talking to me" and lets just say the conversation didnt go anywhere. if i would have told her the same thing but more relaxed i know the convo could have easily went in other directions so lets just relax and try to pull it off in a more casual way. |
I remember reading this sumwhere. |
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Fasho
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| i heard this on tv, girls want a challenge, if you are interested you are not a challenge |
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Israel
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| Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 4:52 am Post subject: |
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Demonstrate Higher Value.
If you show a girl (especially a hot one) that you're interested in her then you're doing two things:
a.) you're showing her that she's the prize and that she has the power.
b.) You're showing that you want to win her which makes you less socially valuable than her. You are actively demonstrating lower value by doing this. If you are the prize to be won, she will qualify herself to you. |
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VEE
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| chumps tell the girl instantly that they like her...masters wait about 10-30 minutes before they do... |
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negsta
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Fuck it man, masters use signals to let the girl figure it out herself.
Some are subtle, some not so much, it all depends on the situation. |
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Starbuck
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| Israel wrote: | Demonstrate Higher Value.
If you show a girl (especially a hot one) that you're interested in her then you're doing two things:
a.) you're showing her that she's the prize and that she has the power.
b.) You're showing that you want to win her which makes you less socially valuable than her. You are actively demonstrating lower value by doing this. If you are the prize to be won, she will qualify herself to you. |
This is true..
But you can't miss your opportunity to escalate, or you may not get another..
Some guys can carry this too far. I mean if a little is good, a lot is better.
Not in this case.
Act somewhat aloof, but make strong eye contact, posture, etc.. See if she responds in a similar and indirect fashion. Then escalate. |
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Trezza
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wow - you guys seriously think that you should wait 10 - 30 minutes before telling a woman you are interested???
And if you do act as if you are not interested, do you think the woman will think you are a challenge? maybe for a liitle while, but then she will just lose interest and move on and LJBF you - because you showed no interest! If you then tried to escalate, you would come off as incongruent and it will freak the woman out - because she thought that you were not interested!
You guys want to be out there having fun and being outside of your head and in the moment! If you are thinking about how long you should wait before you tell a girl you like her, then guess what - you are inside your head, and not having a good time!
If you want to know how long I wait to tell a woman I find her attractive - it differs! All I can say is that if I find her attractive, then I will tell her, but I won't think about telling her, and then think about her responses, and what she will do if she doesn't like me back, or if she does like me back etc!
The best thing to do is to be outside of your head, not give a fuck about what anyone else says or thinks about you, and just be the party! Just go out and have fun, and you will draw other people towards you, because you are having a good time, and other people always want in on that! |
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